if someone came over to your house and you ended up making out. then that person told you that they love you. but you dont love them..or have any emotional attatchment to them (you are just friends and this was a random hookup)
what would you say to them the next day??
serious answers only please....
2007-06-04 08:32:36 · 9 answers · asked by oompa loompa 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok...just so i dont seem like a skank.... this did not happen to ME! it happened to a friend of mine (who is a guy) so reverse the situation...i guess.....but i would never do something like that!
2007-06-04 08:39:30 · update #1
Be like "Hey, I wanted to talk to you about last night... You know, I dont want to hurt your feelings or anything but it kind of threw me when you told me you lvoe me because i kind of felt like we were just having fun and like it didnt really mean anything. I hope you arent too upset, and we can still be friends if you are up to it."
2007-06-04 08:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ashes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know what to say, because I would never make out with someone I didn't really care about. That is the problem with this kind of hookup. I guess all you can do is tell them the truth straight up and be more careful next time. Just remember one thing: you could be in THEIR shoes next time.
2007-06-04 15:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should tell the truth, before the situation grows out of your control. If you want to take down the body, then sever the head. Tell him how you truly feel. Of course, you'll be breaking his heart, however, you'll also be saving him from greater anguish if you were to embellish the problem just to try and protect his feelings. The truth hurts, and more than most don't want to hear it. But it must be heard. It saves many from greater strifes.
2007-06-04 15:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Niko? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation, but i'd probably say something along the lines of "i'm sorry to of brought out feelings like that in you because i'm not looking for a relationship right now."
2007-06-04 15:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Hey hey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them the truth as if you play along with how they are feeling you will hurt them more in the long run, trust me on this one.
2007-06-04 15:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by kiwigirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd be honest...I'd apologize for the makeout session as I'd never do that with someone if I knew they had much stronger feelings for me than I had for them.
2007-06-04 15:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell them you are flatered but you're still dating other guys and not ready to settle down...
2007-06-04 15:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thanks but no thanks.
I'll be your booty call but don't bug me during the day.
My tongue slipped.
Just say what you wrote above you stupid tease.
2007-06-04 15:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well i don't know. i don't know really. sorry! that would be my answer.
2007-06-04 15:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋