i have been with my bf for 2 years I am 17 he is 18 and we have a baby on the way...well last year me and his sister which is 22 got into an argument cuz me and her brother moved in together well there family was planning a trip and he didnt want to go and she thought it was bcuz of me and it wasnt so she called me some names and me being me called her back and comfronted her..now she is trying to have a baby and it always seems like she is trying to compete with me i feel so uncomfortable around her b4 all this happend we were so close now i cant stand to even be around her she has to be better at everything what should i do?
2007-06-04 08:18:28 · 7 answers · asked by raiderchick_812003@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She may or may not be competing with you. Be the adult in the situation. Just because she is supposedly competing with you doesn't mean you have to respond back with a challenge. Go about your life and ignore what she is doing. You have to remember why she is doing this. She is probably very insecure and is looking for some acceptance and attention from someone. If she is trying to be you, then she isn't comfortable being herself. That's sad. Try to be a friend to her and see if you can slowly get her to be comfortable in her own skin. Be kind to her regardless. That is the mature way to act. You can do it. Good luck.
2007-06-06 07:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about her and live your own life.You don't have to compete with her nor she with you.
You have your own life to live and your own baby on the way.Be happy about that and concentrate on your own future and what life will bring to you.
One way or another you have to be around her so be friendly and polite and let it go at that.She is envious of you having a baby so be encouraging to her and be her friend no matter what.There are too many people wasting their lives over family problems so try not to create any for you and your boyfriend.Family is very important.You will realize that as you get older.
When your child comes,help her to feel that you are happy she is your child's auntie.Babies have a way of helping people to get along.Everyone loves babies.
Good Luck and all the best to you and your child.
2007-06-04 15:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Sign up for a class in Introductory Writing and Grammar
2. Ask your boyfriend's sister if you can talk to her. Sit down and talk about how you feel. Keep your head on and be rational. If she doesn't take to what you are saying, then there may be nothing more you can do. If you try and talk to her about the problem you are taking the most mature approach to solving the problem. Hit the ball into her court and see what she does with it.
Good luck!
2007-06-04 15:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by Kristy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her as often as possible. Just realize she is not better than you no matter what she says or has or does. She has a self esteem problem and doesn't feel as good as you, so she is always trying to prove she is better, which she isn't. Once you understand her it will be easier to have sympathy instead of contempt for her.
2007-06-04 15:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about her and her trying to compete with you. Focus on being a mom.
2007-06-04 15:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop competing with her and just live your life and be happy
let her do what she needs to do and just go on with life as though she isn't a part of it
2007-06-04 15:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she's trying to have a baby doesn't mean it has anything to do with you. You sound a bit conceited.
2007-06-04 15:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋