am i crazy?

Question

i want some one to love and love me back my mother tells me she hates me alot and my dad is always at work my brother is a snob who hates me too and none of them talk to me unless the want or need me to do something i have best friend but she has a boyfriend who she is with 24/7 and i don't have anyone else to talk to i have lots of aquantances but none of them really like me much i don't know why but i am usually the one who is trustig and then gets stabbed in the back i want someone to laugh with joke with hug love but them to want to do the same back to me is this crazy or wierd
(whould a boyfriend help ) i have never dated anyone and have had one friend i just want someone to share how i feel and talk to i cry lots at home in my room as i feel alone and lonely and want a hug and wish for someone to hug me and tell me they love me tell me if i am crazy and

what i should do ?

my family says they hate me like 20 time a day

i pray ever night for someone to love but it hasn't happend yet i am 16 if anyone is wondering

my mom was anerexic and has go help but know she is into the drinking bad and i have to take care of her my dad works in montreal and is gone for 6 days a week and sleeps for the day that ha is home

Answer 1

You are not crazy, but you are in a really good breeding environment for mental illness. A boyfriend is not going to help you with this, in fact, it might be a really bad idea to add THAT ingrediant to the mix until you are more stable yourself. A lot of people are raised in insane homes, but turn out mentally healthy, but you need to talk to a therapist. I'm sending you a big hug right now sweetie!
((((You!))))

Answer 2

You were raised to expect love in life but as you aged the people around you wanted more than was possible from you. Now you have to change your expectations and learn what friends and family want that you have missed. That is a social disorder. You better accept that you are an outsider now and seek to be a friend with another outsider who will help you to learn . There is a system to all this but in the end you will remain pretty much the same but will understand more.

Answer 3

Just hang in there. Getting a boy friend isn't the answer. You might end up doing things that you won't be proud of just to keep him. make new friends you age. Find an interest. Make sure to take care of yourself. Ask your Dad if you could spend time just the two of you when he has the chance. Write him a note telling him how much you love him. Put it in his lunch bag or give it to him personally. Talk to your Guidance councillor. You're mom isn't cool for talking to you like that. You need someone to talk to. Good luck.

Answer 4

No, you are not crazy. You sound like a young teenager
Stay away from boys as your cure for loneliness, and low self-esteem. Sometimes boys see a young girl who is unhappy and tell them anything to get them naked. You already feel lonesome, you don't want to feel used and abused and lonesome, right?
You need to be nice to yourself, because apparently your family is not very nice to you. No one should have to put up with their family saying you're nuts and they don't love you.
Talk to a counsellor at school. They are TRAINED to help you! You will not be getting your family in trouble, but be getting help for yourself.
You need to get busy in school, studying English and math, get involved in a sport, so you can exercise-helps with depression-- and get a couple of new friends. Go hang at the library and find new interests, and meet people not just teenagers, but kids, and older adults, to talk to. Get involved in local THEATRE_even if you are shy-you can still help backstage, and meet all sorts of people, and be creative.It is so fun!
Tell your dad you are lonesome, and wish you had a friend. I bet he loves you, and would help, if he knew.
Change YOU (work on being friendly and helpful. Help out at home, and don't whine.) study hard, and figure out what you can laugh about. Make a list of everything you love, and are grateful for-it will help-I promise.tape it to your door and read it everyday.
If you are eating lots of junk food-stop. It makes you tired, and emotional.
Good luck honey.

Answer 5

wow your mom says she hates you? ummm ok well i dont think it would help to get a boyfriend cuz what will happen is you have all of this baggage that you are gonna drop on him and it will eventually lead to a bad break up... you have some issues going on in the home that need to be resolved.... and you cant get love from someone unless you are comfortable and love youself.... way clishe i know but its true.... do you have a job? if not you should look into maybe some volunteer work you know something with kids that way you can see that people do need you and your support if your mom is treating you like that maybe you need to look into family counsling

Answer 6

sounds like you are in the almost growing into womanhood where your emotions a re maturing and you feel the need to trust someone with your inner feelings.

You might try a religious worker if you lean that way, but beware that some of them will prey on your weakness and try to use your sex organs for their own perverted pleasures.

Try joining some social or fraternal groups of like aged and minded people and see if they can as orb your feelings into their social dogma.

Be real careful as you are really receptive to personal advances made to you now.

Answer 7

♥you wont fall in love straight away...meet up with boys and just talk
♥relate to people
♥hug your freinds really really tight lol
♥be there for people
♥prove yourself lovable
♥make people laugh
♥love to be loved

xx ('',) good luck xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 8

When you stop looking it will happen. The harder you try the longer it will take and the worse you will feel. Keep smiling

Answer 9

I am so sorry, that your family is so miserable and uncaring of your feelings...you have many friends here now..here is a great big hug for you, darling...((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))) and also,...you will always have a friend, in Jesus and God,..who loves you more than you will ever know...God Bless and Keep you sweetie....

Answer 10

i feel the same way. I'm homeschooled and that really sucks, but yeah boys do help.