well i like this guy and hes nice and i talk 2 him all the time and i told my friend that im really good friends with, and i was worried that he knows cause whenever i talk to him he goes red, then i found out the other day hes known for a month and my friend told him!! without telling me!!! what should i do about her? then today this guy overheard i like the other guy and blurted it out and the guy i like heard!! if he didnt know before he sure as hell knows now! wat shall i do, its all her fault! and i really like him and she always flirts with him in front me then makes sure im looking! help please!
2007-06-04 06:44:48 · 15 answers · asked by R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all it sounds like your "friend" is totally jealous of you, I'd be careful what you say around her. Secondly, is it so bad that he knows you like him? So he knows, no big deal, just be cool about it, if you start acting all nervous and stupid then he'll think he has you wrapped around his finger. Just blow it off, be yourself and in fact just be bold and blunt, some guys really like that. Talk to him, ask him if he wants to go see a movie or go to something that you both like, like a restaurant, or a concert or mini golfing or whatever you two both like, see what he says. If he doesn't like you back and he flirts with your friend then forget it, move on, pursue another guy.
Relax and have fun with your friends, if you are yourself, the guy will come to you. Just because someone tells him that you like them doesn't necessarily have to mean it's true. You could always pretend you never said any such thing and your "friend" is being stupid.
2007-06-04 06:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you??? If you are under 16, don't worry about it. Easy for me to say, but there are many more people left to meet in your life. Worry about friendships at this point, they last longer and tend not to end in pain. If you are actually old enough to have a meaningful relationship and not just a bf for the social status of it, get a backbone and tell him you like him and ask if he would like to get some ice cream later on. You will know exactly where he stands and the drama will stop one way or the other. If you are afraid of rejection, you will find that rejection in this case would give you just as much freedom as acceptance. It just doesn't feel quite as good. But in the end, this will solve both of your problems. She won't have anything to say about you anymore, he will know for sure, and be able to act on it, and you will never have to tell her you like someone again. All drama gone.
2007-06-04 06:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by killapaddler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok now... he is really nice so its not like he will just stop talking 2 u! if he has a gf then of course no flirting but if he doesnt then just make sure he knows what a great person u r! b as nice as u can b without being like freaky and then just hang out with him like nothing happened... he might ask u if u really do like him and if he does just say yeah, its not the end of the world if he doesnt like u but at least u can let him know how great u r as a friend anyways!
2007-06-04 06:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by gabberswhiffendor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, no offense, but what kind of "friend" is that? I just don't want to comment on her stupid behavior. Take it from me, I had a "friend" flirting with the guy i like. It got so bad that at one point she was hugging him, knowing very well that i like this guy. Notice that we aren't friends anymore.
I don't know if your "friend" likes this guy too, wants to bother you by flirting with him, or enjoys attention (or maybe all three) but this is no friend. I would have a talk with her about why she did what she did.
2007-06-04 06:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you should talk to your friend about the flirting and all of that, also you should try talking to the guy.And if that doesn't work, just find another guy to like.=]
2007-06-04 06:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Natalya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur friends with the girl she wouldnt have told and she WOULD NOT have flirted with him and made sure u saw i dont think u should be friends with her and i dont think the boy would have gotten red if he didnt like u back
2007-06-04 06:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just wants to make you jealous and i think she just doesnt want you to have a bf bc she doesnt...she isnt a real friend bc if she was she wouldnt do stuff like that...and its ok the guy knows i dont think hed turn red if he knew and thought it was weird...i thiiink hee liiikes yooouuu!!!he waaantss too maarryyy yoouu!!!lol but sereoudly i do think he likes you
2007-06-04 06:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! are you ashamed of liking the guy. if so you can be mad all ya want, but if not go up to him and tell him to his face. and your so called friend isnt one if she is flirting with him right in front of your face. make her hate on you bcuz she isnt a friend. she is supposed to be happy for you but all she's doin is making you mad good luck :-})
2007-06-04 06:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by realballer1996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, stay calm
then talk to the guy and tell you like him, see if he wants to go for a walk or something, then have a laugh about all the cloak-and-dagger miscommunication
then see where it goes ..
2007-06-04 06:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by sig21792 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap that *****, then go out with the guy you like. stop posting these crappy ?s, as
NO BODY cares. im sure you could come up with an answer in your own, you just want the attention.
2007-06-04 06:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋