i have a boyfrend and i love him but at times i do get attracted to other boys not upto much but i do find them attractive, usually i don feel like doing nething as such but is that wrong to even look around things that r gud ? i mean i do admire others ,do i need to feel guilty for this that how can i like other boys if i have one, in that sense , i suppose if something is gud there is nothing wrong in looking around ?
2007-06-04 03:28:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Isn't your boyfriend a stud? LOL . . . seriously, you can hurt his feelings bad if he catches you admiring other men too much. It's not wrong to find someone else attractive when you're in a good relationship . . . it's impossible to change the way you feel about that. But if you MEDITATE on how attractive these other guys are, you will cause problems for everyone. Have a nice day!
2007-06-04 03:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to what others have posted, everyone doesn't look around. I've got a girlfriend, and I pay her the respect of keeping my attention on her. Sure, I inevitably see other pretty girls, but I don't check them out. I think this is a matter of personal integrity and not letting even a hint of impurity taint things.
2007-06-04 10:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by The Red Inkstone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is human nature to be attracted to that. As long as you are not pursuing the other studs, then you should be fine. You too should be secure enough to not worry about cheating on each other. If you're not, then get to that point. That way you won't feel so guilty just to look.
2007-06-04 10:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by corrola_1995 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely doesnt hurt to look, just don't touch. I'm sure guys are out there doing the same exact thing whether they admit it or not.
2007-06-04 10:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone admires and even desires others, but as long as you dont' act on it and you love your man, or woman...its not a problem.
2007-06-04 10:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by big stan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your fantastic grammar and spelling I'm sure you'll have no trouble hooking up with any low life or loser you flash a booby at.
2007-06-04 10:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't wrong but if u love some one u shouldn't look around
2007-06-04 10:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes your bf will get jealous the only reason your looking around is because your prolly sexually aroused and thinking about doing it and you like every guy you look at
2007-06-04 10:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to look when I am with mine. But my neck keeps turning. :) Just kidding.
2007-06-04 10:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do the right thing. if you love someone you should not be looking around
2007-06-04 10:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋