im 17 and at this sixth form. There is this guy who i had a crush on because he always use to stare and smile at me. i began to like him and found out that he was part of the cool crowd. He gets invited to all the cool parties and is like one of the popular guys in skl. he's clever and gd lookin. and i still think he had this crush on me. The only things is i'm totally shy and he knows i like him ( i dont know how it reached him). the thing is he's soo way above me i think he's arrogant and i wont ever be able to go out with him . i'm sure he hasnt ever had a gf but he's too confident to show that insecurity. I'm just fancy him soo much. And the fact i'm nerdy ( everyone says i'm beautiful ( trying to be modest but truthfully they say that)), do guys still fancy nerdy but pretty girls? because this idea of me being nerdy and geeky just puts me down and i dont think i'm ever gd enough and feel i will never have a bf. how can i feel gd about myself so girls will fall for the nerdy girl?
2007-06-04 03:09:40 · 7 answers · asked by exotic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be absurd, in the realm of love and relationships, there is no such thing as being "above" one another. Love wills out. It is above everyone and everything. There is nothing in this world that is higher than love. Love supersedes all. Love can bring down wall both metaphysically as well as in real life.
In college, I met a girl that pulled my heart out of my chest. She was 6 years younger than me but when she looked at me the very first time, I almost started to drool all over myself. I couldn't get over her eyes. To make a long story short, we got together then she moved away, got married, had children, got a divorce and moved back 19 years later. She saw me one day and came into my business. We've been dating ever sense like nothing had happened.
Trust me, there is nothing higher than love and if you want this guy, you have to do something about it. Don't wait for him to make the first move.
2007-06-04 03:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What specifically has he done to prove that he is arrogant? Has he really done anything, or is that just how you perceive him because you like him so much and he's so popular? Sometimes I feel inferior to my boyfriend because he's incredibly intelligent and has a good, steady job, but that's not something he did to make anyone feel bad, I just perceive him that way because he's more successful than me.
I think you're intimidated by his popularity status because you yourself aren't popular. If you really like him, approach him when he isn't with all of his friends. Talk to him and ask him about himself so you get to know him better. If he's nice to you, and if you still like him, move up at your own pace. If you decide you don't like him anymore, it's up to you.
And don't worry about popularity labels. If you're a nice girl and you know what's important to you, and are honest with yourself, that is the best thing you can have, even if you are the most unpopular person in school.
2007-06-04 03:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen when you get a bit older, the Beautiful nerdy girls get the right guys in the end. They are smart enough to know what's right for them, and have the looks to get the ones they want. You don't know it yet but once you get to college you will have them lining up for you to choose from.
2007-06-04 03:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need some self confidence!
Why do you assume that he is arrogant just because he hangs out with the popular people? You never know until you meet him.
Why not just go out with him and see what happens? If it does not work out, so what? He is just one person, and there are a lot of other people out there. You will never know if ou do not try.
2007-06-04 03:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're smart doesn't mean anything. Put your smarts to the test find out what he needs helps with and go up to him and volunteer to help him while at the same time get to know him.
2007-06-04 03:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by jamaicaladydread 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if thats how u feel a lot of good guys go for nerdy cute girls. if you want u can let him know but if u fear hurt stay away,Good luck all the best
2007-06-04 03:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by tamlee01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we still do we do all types to tell you the truth idk i think he does like you but he does not no waht his friends will say... or he is interested and to shy to ask you because your shy and he is used to preppy out going girls or is dating outside of school and wont make the move there idk
2007-06-04 03:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by Partyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋