My ex came by my place for my birthday, which I was happy to see him. He spent the night, he wanted to have sex but I refused. I told him I knew about the other women he was seeing and that I didn't want to expose myself to that type of lifestyle. He stayed the night anyway. I woke up took a shower and got dressed while he still slept. I was in the living room when I heard my front door open and he had left out when I went to the door and opened it I saw him running down the stairs. He didn't say good bye, enjoy the rest of your birthday or anything...he just ran out without saying a word.
He's never done anything like that before. When I called him, I asked him why he left like that. He told me that I had lied to him about something. I don't know what? I told him regardless he didn't have to leave like that on my birthday, he just that he had to get out of their & told me talk 2 u never, then he hung up. I don't know y he'd do that 2 me on my b-day.
2007-06-04 02:58:03 · 13 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're better off without that d*ckhead in your life
2007-06-04 03:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm looking for something that resembles a question here. He may be your EX but you sure seem emotionally wrapped up with him like he is a current bf. If he truly is your Ex and he effects you this way then maybe you need some distance for awhile so you can separate boy friend issues from just friend issues. Sounds like everything is too close and you can't separate the two.
And why is his leaving on your birthday grounds to ruin it? Sounds like your relationship isn't very Ex to me if he can ruin your birthday with such a little act.
2007-06-04 03:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by jautomatic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly congratulations for not being used by him for sex. It sounds as though he knew he wasn't getting what he wanted and tried to turn things around by making out the previous problems in your relationship were your fault. He's a jerk and your better off without him. He may have spoilt your birthday but dont let him spoil the rest of your year by worrying about what he said. Move on and don't let him back into your life, because he's their at the moment emotionally.
2007-06-04 03:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fine. That sucks. I guess he is your EX for a reason. But what is your question? No offense, but if you just needed to vent, you should go find a blog or message board or something. So what is your point?
2007-06-04 03:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you invite your ex over for your bday then not sleep with him? Why would he go if there was nothing in it for him. And he left without saying anything oh the monster if that pissed you off no wonder he;s your ex
2007-06-04 03:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what's the big deal?the guy only wanted sex and didn't give it to him so he got mad and ran home...would you have been happier on your b-day to have sex with him?just call him and have sex if you regret it this much.I think you're still into him.
2007-06-04 03:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he was only after one thing, and when he didn't get it, he tried to turn it around on you. What a bastard. I wouldn't talk to him ever again after that.
2007-06-04 03:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by Masha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off without him. If he'd treat you like that, you don't need him around. Get past it and start anew! :)
2007-06-04 03:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to care much or take it serious as he is ur ex n dun mean to you anymore
2007-06-04 03:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by shygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st he shouldn't have stayed the night! dont invite people to ur activities if u dont want them.
2007-06-04 03:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋