Basically the article says to stop thinking like a guy and more like a women.
Be a high status guy, someone who could provide for her, and take care of her. Never communicate that you're a lower status guy. Let her chase the guy; when a guy notices an attractice lady he naturally goes after her; but why not switch it around? We seldom want something that is easy to get, and usually go for things that are harder to find. Have lots of attractive female friends...actual friends; not ladies you want and are friends with.
There're a few more, but those are the interesting points...I realize I do some of these subconsciously and didn't know...but I am curious to what you ladies think....true or not?
http://ca.askmen.com/dating/dating_top_ten_150/166_dating_list.html
2007-06-04 02:51:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww man it may work with some women but if a guy goes off me I don't really think I'd be knockin on his door lol I like my coming after me not the other way round and if at all somebody plays hard to get then I care not a bit lol so u see there are expections coz a girl like me may say oh come on there are other fish in the huge sea LMAO then wats the point in pretending....that site is good but I felt it was highly hung up on just one point " GUYS DO NOT DE VALUE URSELF " thats like redundancy throughout the 10 points listed lol no help at all.
2007-06-04 21:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by kittana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The high status guy, is not really that important - it should have said employed, wants the best for her, not unemployed and wants to live off of her., and yes, letting her come after you a bit is good advice, no one can have respect for someone who kisses their butt. But, attractive girls do not get as many compliments/attention as you think, it's the intimidation thing i think, I always hear, but I thought you wouldn't talk to me, or I just knew you had to already have someone... so making a move is nice, it shows you are confident and interested, but then let her go after you. about the girls as friends, not a bad idea, if it is possible for you to do. Not many guys can be just friends, and it would depend on how close. Don't make it a group of your exes, include her in your time with the girls and focus on her while you're with her, and it should be okay.
2007-06-04 03:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree with part of it. I do want a man who can provide for me, who is confident with who he is and doesn't talk bad about himself. Also, I agree that everyone likes a chase and wants what they can't have...it's human nature. The only thing I may not feel comfortable with is a man who has a lot of attractive female friends. Who wants to date someone who has friends that are more attractive than them? And that guy may appear to be a player rather than a good guy.
2007-06-04 02:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true. Men are the agressor, protecter, provider. Nothing less. Men should chase after women. Deep down all guys wanna chase the girls. Yea it's good to have female friends that you are JUST friends. But when you're seeing someone you need to lay off spending time with the female friends your gf will start suspecting.
Ms_A-Rod
2007-06-04 02:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. A-Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They only interviewed 484 women, and there's way more heterosexual women than that on this whole planet. Studies say all sorts of crazy things, there's studies that say 1/3 of men would rape a woman and things like that. There's studies that contradict each other, one saying it's okay to let your baby cry it out and another study saying letting babies cry it out can lead to problems later in life. The thing is people will believe those studies if they support *their* opinion, even if there's another study that says otherwise. It's all BS.
2016-03-13 05:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true. Askmen has a lot of fun to read but messed up articles. I wouldn't be chasing the guy who is interested in me. If he stops chasing and takes this article's advice, he looses.
2007-06-04 03:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False..... always be yourself from day one!!! The most attractive thing in a man is a honest man. I married my husband b/c he was himself. We didn't chase each other, we simply hung around and fell in love. Men can never think like women because they are not women.... So makes friends, be friends, and love at all times....
2007-06-04 03:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by trish0247 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If any guy treated me like that, I would treat him the same way.
With this in mind I don't see how we would ever go on a date. As a matter of fact I would see him as a first class Jerk."What goes around, comes back around".
2007-06-04 03:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the whole part letting a girl chase you instead of you showing interested uh no wrong...I usually won't notice a guy until he shows interest in me....( unless your really goodlooking..lol)then I begin crushing on that guy..so if you like someone just talk to them and show interest and if she isn't shy she'll ask you out, espescially if she's shy.....if she's shy ask her out...thats called playing games and if a guy plays hard to get...I'll think that their not interested and move on....do your own thing forget about books and articles...
2007-06-04 03:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never "chased guys"...in fact I usually blow off a guys first attempt to talk to me to see if they are really interested.
2007-06-04 02:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by kelly t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋