Are you the jealous type?

Question

how do you know when you have gone over board with jealousy? when is enough enough...

Answer 1

I very much used to be when I was younger untill it cost me my relationship.
I believe jealous in a whole is a very negative thing. Sometimes it is hard when you really care about someone to not want to covet their time or affection. To Be frank if you are having jeslousy issues, try to step back from the situation and look at it as if you were someone else, or get a friends opinion that is not on the inside of the situation. No one is perfect and we all go crazy, especially when we really care!!!! Also again communication open and honest is the best way to deal with underlining issues. If you have a problem with your boyfriend flirting with certain girls or doing something that you dislike tell him and if he does not react in a positive way or gets defensive I think maybe you should just prepare yourself for seperation because ladies, you have the power.

Answer 2

Oh god no. I could never be jealous of anyone over anything. The most I do is shrug, learn from my mistakes, see what that person had done to get what I wanted and keep it in mind for the future.

Lifes too short to go green! Negative feels like jealous, hate and revenge are so tiring. I've given up on them and now try to be as carefree and light-hearted as possible.

Answer 3

That you're not jealous means you're probably not in love. Jealousy is quite natural - even the animals feel it.

When is enough enough? When your partner eliminates the cause of the jealousy.

Answer 4

When you live miserable and it hurts all the time. When his/her answers, don't make any sense. When you live in constant lies, this will cause the distrust you feel. When they give you a reason to doubt and you don't want a reason. When you have turned your head for the last time. A relationship like this is not good for anyone. You may find that you are not even the jealous type in your next relationship. This happened to me. I found out the truth years later, after we went our separate ways. My instincts were right all along.

Answer 5

OH YEAH! i am very jealous. my boyfriend is the love of my life and knowing he is even around a girl like at work or anything makes me CRAZY! i don't always tell him though. the key is to pick your battles. decide whether something is worth getting mad about or not and if not forget it and if so, let him know. just don't let too many things slide. sometimes men need to be controlled a little. so don't be afraid to get mad at him. if thats truly the way you are and he can't love you anyway, then hes not the one.

Answer 6

I am not really the jealous type, but EVERYBODY is jealous to a point. I think that if you are confident in yourself and know that you are enough...there is no need to be jealous.

Answer 7

i am definitely the jealous type...

i don't worry when he goes to the shop or has a drink with the guys...

but when we are in a place and girls look at him or something like that i will ask them what they are looking at...

he on the other hand always tells the guys he doesn't care if they look at me are dance with me cause he is the one i am going home with...

wish i was like that

Answer 8

You know you are the jealous type when you start comming up with "scenarios" and you start beleiving yourself. I think thats a good sign :)

Answer 9

When you start having abysmal thoughts and planning ways to get even and it just turn you into something you're not then you know that you've gone overboard.

Answer 10

No, jealousy is a waste of time and energy.