Last week i was at my boyfriends house and i was on the internet, i went to google something and it came up with what he had previously searched. It came up with female escorts. I didnt say anything to him (well not yet anyway) and left it at that!
The other day my friend at work was telling me that her husband cheated on her a few years ago with a female escort.
Do you think this is a sign to tell me to get outthis relationship?
Thanks
2007-06-04 02:16:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to discuss this with him.
2007-06-04 02:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your boyfriend if he has ever searched for female escorts on the internet. If he says 'no', then he's lying and if he says 'yes' then ask him why! Either way I think you're probably in a relationship that needs some honest communication if it's going to survive.
In answer to your question, the universe is infinite in scope with trillions upon trillions upon trillions of simultaneous interactions occuring every second. If a 'coincidence' holds deeper meaning for you then I would say it has happened for a reason.
2007-06-04 09:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by Bob Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a mans perspective - Men do not regard escorts as cheating - they do not love the girl they just think of it as fun.
Having said that I think that it is not a good sign. It means that his eye is roving. I agree with the contribitor who said that you should talk with him - be honest but do not make him feel guilty - if you tease out how he thinks then you could save yoursel fa lot of trouble for the future.
At least you are not married to the guy - so you can be on your guard for the immediate future. Young guys make lots of mistakes because sex rules their world. How would he feel if you were looking at pictures of men ?
Look - there are still good guys out there - maybe not in your country , maybe outside. At least you are not married to him -so the ball is in your court - now play it.
2007-06-04 09:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kalgoorlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe things happen for a reason and that this is a sigh to rethink your relationship (not to be harsh or anything)
but think about it, better to learn of his habit now while you are dating than 3 years down the line as his wife with a new born baby. You should confront him find out why (maybe it was someone els) , and if you really love him and he loves you work it out, but if not dont hang around as the third wheel get on with your life, find someone els and see what sighs he brings . . .
2007-06-04 09:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Spartan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe things happen for a reason often. Look it's always best to be honest, I speaking to you. You should ask him, tell him what happened. Sweetie, you will know if he's lying. Don't ever assume anything, find out and let him talk. Listen and observe his behavior. Don't jump in and start talking over him. LISTEN.... If he denies it and is all nervous somethings not right. look in his eyes, if he can't look back at you, there is a major problem! Good luck, Lucky
2007-06-04 09:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by TempressTiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't jump into a wrong conclusions. If your Friends husband is cheating on her...that doesn't mean that is the same thing with your boyfriend.
Have a little more faith in "us" thing. Give up only when you have facts.
Good luck!
2007-06-04 09:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by Aquamarine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was in your shoes I would get out because he is probably just going to do what your friends husband did. It would hurt you even more if you were dumped by him so dump him and get it over with before he does something bad and Im very sorry if this answear makes you feel bad.
2007-06-04 09:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Nich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy oh boy that is definatly a huge RED FLAG if I ever saw one!!! No matter how many things about this guy makes you smile it's not worth it. get out of that before it gets worse!!! Things do happen for a reason. Good or bad. This is a sign.it's your choice to do the right thing for you. remember you have to treat yourself great in order for someone else can.
2007-06-04 09:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes there is a reason for every thing in Law and Legislation we do know that nothing happen without reason if you know it or not but there are seasons.
2007-06-04 10:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends? Maybe he is just curious and his mates have been talking about the subject? Put it this way, if you want to finish with him, here's your excuse. If not, sit down and talk about it, see what he has to say? Good luck, anyway.
2007-06-04 09:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lifeisgreat! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to discuss this asap!. Is there any chance your friend could have seen your boyfriend going into escort place etc and she was trying to warn you ?
For your own health you needto address this
2007-06-04 09:40:44 · answer #11 · answered by cottontail 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋