I gave my girl fren a soft toy. I once told her i like her but she said she doesnt want a relationship as we are both studying. But since then we've been really close and she even tells me her personal things such has her pms. Now she is overseas and she took it along. What does this mean?Aww man i really miss her, what do i do?But few weeks back she asked me to go online and when i asked her why, she said we havent spoke to one another for a long time & felt distant. And i just found out she came back a few days back but did not even contact me. Is this because she thinks i dont care as i didnt email her?? On her bday, i asked her but she didnt reply. Im very hurt now as i hold myself back everytime i want to talk to her as i think long distant relationship wont work and i dunno if she likes me. What do i do? If u suggest me to write her a mail, what do i write abt??
2007-06-04 01:56:00 · 20 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, well, since she came back to town and didn't even try to contact you and when you asked her to go out on her B-day she didn't respond either, I'm sorry to say that she probably is not interested in you anymore. Try to move on....don't e-mail her because you may come off as a needy stalker-type. If you want her back, play it cool and let her come to you.
2007-06-04 02:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ex-Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know until you open that email, or ask her point blank again until you get an answer! I think maybe she does just really like you very much as a friend, but who knows. Maybe she did think you didn't care about her anymore. What do you really feel deep down about how she feels about you? And be honest with yourself...a lot of people believe what they want to believe, even though they kind of know better. I know it's hard, and I know what you mean about not wanting to check your email, but you just gotta do it and see. She may be beating around the bush a little with something, and you need to get it out of her in a straightforward way so you know what's what. We women often think guys can and should read our minds and signals, and sometimes need some prodding to say exactly what we really feel.
2016-05-21 00:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she took the stuffed toy along then that means she liked it and it means something to her. She probably does wonder why you didn't email her. I would suggest you write her an email and in it I would tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels If you still like her then you need to tell her and long distance relationships can work-if youns both feel the same for one another, It's all about how strong your feelings are in order to make it work. You 1st need to find out how she feels and take it from there.
2007-06-04 02:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not want a relationship because both of you are studying? Sounds so familiar, sounds so Filipino.
She considers you as a "common" friend and nothing more. If you were that "special" friend, she should be telling you she way in advance that she is arriving and be inviting you to her birthday. Obviously not sending her emails is also a big factor. If you really care for someone, you should keep in touch with her.
2007-06-04 02:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is you giving us what you are feeling about her, and do you want to pretend that you have the ability to know what she is thinking about you. The only thing we know about what you are saying is that you have fear of losing the girl of your love.
You are busy trying to comfort yourself with assurances that it is still there. The story of the taken soft toy, the request for you to go online etc. Be a man, it is you who wants this girl, why are you fearing to do what ever it takes to keep on contacting her. Let her know that you are there and still waiting. She wants a long lasting relationship.
If what you are looking for is a fling, leave this girl alone. There is a big difference between genuine friendship and experimenting friendship.
2007-06-04 02:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by Emide 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her an email and tell her how u feel. she might be going through a really rough time right now in her life and she doesnt quite know what she wants just yet. give it a little time and see what happens, but dont be the first to try to push a commitment on her. thats probably one thing she doesnt want right now. ask her how she is feeling and see what goes on from there. good luck...
2007-06-04 02:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by jenrulz13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are mostly about being lonely. Move on.
Even as a friend you should have written regularly to keep that friendship. Friendships require energy input, you can't just put them on hold and expect the same relationship later.
2007-06-04 02:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by ninebadthings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her an email telling her how you feel. Everything. And use better grammer than you did here!
There is a lack of communication in a lot of relationships (including my own, so I kind of know what I'm on about).
2007-06-04 02:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by LT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not write an email. Written words can sometimes be misunderstood. I would rather call and ask her out. I would start: Hey, finally you are back, I really missed you, cannot wait to see you - shall we go out?
2007-06-04 02:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ ♥ alma ♥ ♪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just likes u as her friend, appreciate u, have affection for u, but nothing more.
coming back saying 'felt distant', sort of missing you is not the same as 'i love u' .
dont do nothing, keep her as ur friend.
if it is hard to see her as ur friend (everytime u see her, u wud like to hold her close in ur arms n kiss her but u have to resist), oh thats hard i know, then forget her.
life is short, so enjoy n dont waste time thinking of her.
2007-06-04 02:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by eMJy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋