She is on oral contraceptive and recently cured from kidney stone . She stays alone at home till evening and her relatives are staying far away from her .
2007-06-04 00:38:02 · 7 answers · asked by bachchu0007 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sounds like it very well could be the oral contraceptive. Some of those pills just have the wrong combination of hormones that can make a woman VERY depressed. I was on one such type once. I called my doctor and he changed the brand of oral contraceptive and I felt much better.
2007-06-04 00:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Andee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so sad..
sounds like she is feeling abandon in some ways..
This should be a happy time for her.. expectations for joy have been cut from her.. so sounds like suicide is the way to her answer to resolve??
First.. Take her suicide feelings very serious.
I'd recommend she get in to be evaluated.
If she appears a threat to herself or others, call the police, or her doctor and get her admitted.
Medications she is on too could play some in her emotions , reason again to also see her doctor.
Sounds too like she needs to get out and around positive and encouraging people, take up a hobby, volunteer, get focused on her!.. And, where and what is her new husband doing to help her?
Relatives pulling away?.. shaking head now.. Just when she needs help , they abandon ship!.. I'd be depressed too.. that i married into apparently a dysfunctional family.. ( oh, been there done that one) I got divorced..
She's fortunate to have sibling like you.
But, remember too you can't carry her life on your back, for her to find real strengths, she needs to have you beside her , to find her own, and know she is not alone with you, that you are there not to prop her up, but for her to know she has the strengths and abilities you know she has inside..Let her know that.. it will go a long ways more in her ability to make future choices of strength and courage.
good luck to you both..
2007-06-04 08:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by miladyfaire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should change brands, or methods of contraception, and drink a glass of water every hour, to minimise the chances of kidney stones recurring, since not drinking enough water is often the cause. See depression treatments/resources at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris on page 2, and copy/print relevant parts and give to her, or direct her there.
2007-06-04 08:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where's the new groom ? Why isn't hubby by her side taking care of his new bride ? You would think 2 months into it, she should still be on Cloud 9. So what if she stays home alone till evening ? Why don't she cook a meal for her husband when he gets home from work...du-uh. Has she just started this behavior ?
2007-06-04 07:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must talk to her and try to increase the level of her confidence. What is her problem, is definitely to be known. Whether she is happy with the marriage, if not, find out the reasons. Some times, a girl or a boy feel disillusioned from the way they thought his/her spouse to be. You have to calm her if it is so, and prepare her to have a child. If she has some problem with her husband, may be sexual, try to talk to her and brother in law, through yourself or mother or sister or some other confidant... Early solution is a must...
2007-06-04 09:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the bcp is doing it. i am taking a bcp that is making me mad all the time. im going to go off of it soon. good luck.
2007-06-04 07:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's awesome!
2007-06-04 07:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋