my parents ((expecially my dad)) are always interfiering... they always come in at the most awquard moments and screw things up... for example, a little while ago, i was going on my first date((well not realy date, but thing at the movies sort of thing)) ((im 12)) with this realy nice, funny, great, hot, girl ((i could go on and on but im getting off the subject)) and my dad screwed it up, he came along to the moviewe were going to, he didnt let us see anything good and he was like just yeah =(
he was also realy self-sentered and wouldnt let us go anywhere near her house, but wanted to go to a place closer to our house, exept it was realy hard for her... WTH?! and also, he forced her to pay for the ticket, i would have gladly done it but... i mean like, WTH?!
i might be sounding bitchy but sometimes it just pissed me off...
both my parents are like that =(
i know that they are trying to protect me and want me to be safe and all... but yeah...
plz tell me... do urs do the same? =(
2007-06-03 23:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it gets easyer as u get older. dont worry to much for now, if they still do it when ur 16 then u have a problem. i find my perants to be controling sumtimes to, so i just dont tell them wat im doing or where im going, or at least i be very vauge about it.
it should work, if your pearants relize ur trying to make ur own decisions, they will start to lay off eventualy. but still listen to their advise because its probaly going to be good advise which will help u in the long run.
2007-06-03 23:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My children are a little older than you...I think you should be thankful that your parents allowed you a little dating time. It is not as if they had to agree to do it at all. Your parents ARE trying to protect you and the purpose in making it more difficult was purposeful.
I do not know what your personal situation is...but I have found that my sons (who are older teenagers) sometimes have a few girls that hang around just to see what they can score. If you are of a nice home, and your family is perceived to have a better than average income, I feel certain that your folks are concerned that people will hang around (especially girls) for the wrong reason.
2007-06-04 07:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by mzadamz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably seems like a drag right now and it is hard to understand that they are looking after your best interests. They are going out of their way to make sure that things turn out right for you. Your dad, I am sure would have much rather stayed home instead of chasing along as a chaperon. Be grateful that you have parents who care about you. The young people who don't have parents who care are the ones who wind up getting into more trouble than they can get themselves out of.
2007-06-04 06:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by don n 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they are trying to keep you from stupid little things like becoming a parent at 13! Face it that is (hopefully not anything like drugs) what you need "private" time for.
Remember, it is easy for lazy parents to let there kids do anything they want, but how will they turn out.
Blame them but change your way of thinking
2007-06-04 07:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by luteachris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find out as you grow up that only the parents who give a d*mn about their kids, care what they do, where they go and who they do it with. Sorry guy, sounds like you got stuck with those kind. From your post, I can't imagine why.
2007-06-04 06:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are 25 and then you will know
2007-06-04 07:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋