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So my fiance wont stay overnight. Or if he comes late he'll stay till like 2am, wake me up and then go home at 2am!!!!! So I was wondering. He says he does this to keep his nan happy and not ger her moody. (Apparently she hates him staying out all night and having a healthy life of his own.) I was wondering what you guys make of this? Is it her being controlling do you think or is it him just being an a s s ?? He lives with his nana btw and she is perfectly healthy really and has no handicap or need for him there. She just doesn't like being alone at night. Is this fair on me? I don't think so it's like he'd rather sleep with his Nan than me... EW!!!!

2007-06-03 22:54:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

He's 39 btw and I'm living in my own place so it's not like he has a curfew or I have anyone else in the flat.

2007-06-03 22:57:23 · update #1

Ok I know that last part sounds mean> But I feel unsafe living alone because of where I am. And he doesn't seem to take this into account? We're supposed to be married soon!!!!

2007-06-04 00:43:51 · update #2

3 answers

discuss with him what is going to happen after you get married?
if he says that this situation is going to stop then be patient untill you get married

2007-06-03 23:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by girl24gr 3 · 0 0

You are going to marry a 39yr old man who lives with his grandmother and won't stay all night with you because he says she doesn't want him to? Frankly if a grown man needs to live with his grandmother, the very least he can do is make her feel safe by being there at night. From your last sentence you don't have any respect for him anyway. Do both yourselves a favor and don't get married.

2007-06-04 07:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0 0

I guess if he feels this way you have to take it or leave it.

2007-06-04 05:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0 0

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