Why am I finding it so hard?
All the time, all im thinking about is him, and the memories we had. The first time we met, how i felt, all the excitment i felt going to meet him for the first time. My stomach is in knotts, i just want to forget him, will it always be this hard? Every single day?
2007-06-03 22:54:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's pretty much that way with everyone if a relationship ends. It just takes time. Nothing else will do and it'll get better.
2007-06-03 22:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Silkeez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, it will get better over time, it takes time, believe it or not all the emotions you are having right now, and what you are going through is normal, part of the grieving process.
Just give yourself time, and time to heal, and in time you will be fine.
Those memories will lessen as you get out, get active, and stay busy with friends, and when you meet another, then you will feel that you are going to have wonderful new memories with your new guy.
But give yourself time to heal, and know that what you are going through right now, is normal, part of the normal healing process.
2007-06-03 23:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a broken heart for a long time....
The love of my life..betrayed me...
I will fall in love again..S**t does happen and it hurts.
The whole world has a broken heart most of the time.
Make sur eyou only watch funny(not sad or romantic) movies.
Also,playing mortal combat video games helped me alot.
P.S.-Time and space do nothing at all....
Falling in love with a new peerson will be the only thing that helps ease your pain,don't let anybody lie to you..
2007-06-03 23:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sweetie it gets just a tiny tiny bit easier every day. then after 30 days not so hard after 60 even less and after 120 you won't even think twice about him . hang in there, don't give in to your side that wants to go to him. stay strong.
2007-06-03 22:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by jazzmen4u28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..Believe it or not it gets easier with time. Good Luck!
2007-06-03 22:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing, only opposite sex. I just keep thinking about her.
2007-06-03 22:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Trainwreck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it will get easier as time goes by...keep yourself active...thats the best thing you an do
2007-06-03 22:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by josey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and space, are great healers.
2007-06-03 22:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, time is our friend. it makes us forget!
2007-06-03 22:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcoz youneed him n love him...
2007-06-03 22:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by mans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋