my ex is thinking about being friends again with me but the thing is in my opinion she doesnt seem the same we havnt talked in a while so i really dont know but i dont think shes a virgin anymore and we sorta joked around sexually some times so i was wondering if shes not do i ask or do i just wait for her to tell me
2007-06-03 22:54:24 · 7 answers · asked by ddd c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she just wants to be friends again, why does it matter that she is a virgin?
2007-06-03 22:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky situation. If you are planning on getting back together with your ex and having a sexual relationship you must have the talk sooner or later. In this day and age indiscriminate sex is a bad idea. If you are both sexually active, you will both need to be tested for STDs. So to answer your question, if you are engaging in sexual activities with her, you need to ask her as soon as possible.
However, if you are not planning to get together with your ex, then you should avoid sexual jokes and encounters with her. Keep to the straight and narrow and make sure she knows that door is closed. In which case, you don't need to know her sexual history. If she wants you to know her private business, she'll tell you in her own time. Good luck!
2007-06-03 23:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by pitti-sing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you need to know if she's a virgin or not? If it's out of plain curiosity I would just ask her.
And it's no surprise if she doesn't seem the same if you haven't talked in awhile. Just make sure that if you ask, it's in a proper situation because just randomly asking someone about their sexual history is just plain rude and can create a seriously awkward moment.
2007-06-03 22:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Maria Brightly Burning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still want to be freinds askin her would not be the right way to go around it how ever if your desperte to find out you could always start a disscusion about first times and casually say what age did you lose your that way you will no for sure if she says she hasnt say something allong the lines of ''aww your waiting for the right person sensible '' something like that hopefully she wont freak out but realy i wouldnt recomend asking her .
2007-06-03 23:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, leave your ex sexual-life alone! If she tells you then fine, but NEVER ASK!
2007-06-03 22:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be very easy to just ask since you guys had been close anyway. if you really wanna know, just ask.
2007-06-03 23:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is none of your business
2007-06-03 22:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋