my bf doesn't want me to check his mobile i know he hide things from me. One time i try to check his mobile i saw i messge from a girl saying that he loves my guy knowing that he has a gf (and thats me) i know the personal mobile no. of this girl should i warning her to stop flirting with my man or should i let things pass by.
2007-06-03 22:37:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously you don't trust your boyfriend. You can't have a relationship without trust.
2007-06-03 22:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by robin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a girlfriend, you have every right to check your boyfriend's mobile. How else will you know if he's been cheating on you?
You should get together a friend to call up this girl, to get her personal particulars. You can pretend that she won a contest or that you are sending a free club membership her way.
Pay her a visit with some hooligans to 'have a meeting'.
After that, confront your boyfriend with the evidence.
2007-06-03 22:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of calling her, and causing more trouble, I would talk to your man about this.
You should have an open and honest relationship, and if you confront him about this and he is open enough to tell you the truth, then you have nothing to worry about.
But I would go to the source, and that would be your boyfriend, the other girl on the other hand, is probably pulling your chain and playing mind games with you because she knows you get defensive about women going after your man.
Go to the source, which would be your boyfriend and ask him.
2007-06-03 22:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, ive had the SAME thing happen to me.....that is ridiculous.. obviously hes doing smething wrong if he's hiding it.. let ur guy know whats up and tell him things should be open & honest in a healthy relationship because youre not going to want him if hes going to be doing shady things like that talking to chicks behind ur back... oh and u can call the girl if u want but, its not HER fault..HE should have the blame..think about if he found that in ur phone..he'd flip, so why should he think its ok for him?
2007-06-03 22:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by mandyk704 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD BY ALL MEANS CHECK HIS MOBILE... I AM A GUY AND I WOULD APPRECIATE IT IF MY GF CHECKS MY MOBILE ONCE IN A WHILE... Just don't make it a habit because it gets annoying sometimes... But checking his mobile just means you're concerned... Is all...
Ohtar, out! :)
2007-06-03 22:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by talant_ohtar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf is any type of respectable man, he should not be concerned about you checking his cell. If you think or find that he is contacting other women, my best advice is to look elsewhere, and leave him at the curb.
Relationships must be built on trust, and can never last without it.
Good luck.
2007-06-03 22:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by biffthepurplebear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him see your mobile either.
Walk out of the room and have all your conversations become secretive all of the sudden.
Let him beg to know details,but stay coy about it.
He may then understand how you feel.
NEVER tell him why you do that.
Let him wonder.
It may be good for him.
2007-06-03 22:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur seeing those types of messages then sumthin isnt right...ive been in similar situations...i would call that number and ask the girl whats goin on between her and ur boyfriend...then after u speak with her u can decide on what to do from there...u should have a clear state of mind though...
2007-06-04 06:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start something you can't handle....Thats why we are advised not to go thru our significant others mobiles coz all you do is coz yourself immeasurable hurt and coz distrust within the relationship.
2007-06-03 22:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If him wont let you then thats bad news and there isnt enuf trust in your relationship. You should talk to him about everything!
2007-06-03 22:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋