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2007-06-03 22:04:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-06-03 22:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by fisheyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not every woman wants a skinny or muscly guy, I personally like really tall big men with big hands and feet, Preferably over 6 foot (because Im almost 6 feet myself)
Of course having said that I am incredibly happily married to a very short man! and have had 5 kids with him.
At the end of the day the only reason I can see you NEVER finding a woman is how you feel yourself, I mean this in a nice way, but if you sit around all day on the couch with dirty clothes eating then chances are you arent really up to feeling good, going out and meeting a nice girl.
However if you have pride, (and you can even if youre overweight) dress pretty decent, keep yourself tidy and keep up your hobbies and interests than a decent lady wont care if youve got a bit of extra to hug.
For the record, Im overweight, always have been, but Im confident, dress nice and look aftermyself, and never been single for more than a couple of months in my life.
If you feel horrible and hate yourself then no one will find you attractive. many women look past the phsyical stuff. Just like some men do with women.
Goodluck
2007-06-03 22:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by Dani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately most people try to find someone who is above them in the looks department, but usually end up with someone who is at the same level.
For example, someone who is an 8 on the attractiveness scale would want someone who is a 9 or a 10, but they might not be able to get them so they settle for another 8.
Fatties are at the bottom of the scale . I don't agree with this, but that's the way it is thanks to Hollywood and it's stereotyping (You can thank Eddie Murphy for a good share of that...) . So fatties have to get it together with fatties which is weird because most fatties don't find other fatties attractive.
The only other option is to take up with someone who is down further on the social scale than you and that's scraping the bottom of the barrel, or to have a lot of money if you are a man and then of course you can have any woman you want provided you give her what she wants, which is in essence paying her to be with you which makes her a prostitute, but that's life.
2007-06-03 22:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about being fat or thin. You should know that love is not based on size but on feelings. Obviously, it is better for health not to be overweight but look around you and you will see many happy couples who are maybe too fat or too thin....a woman isn't just looking for a man who is handsome and slim but someone she can be with because he makes her laugh and is interesting to be with. I am an older woman now and don't have a relationship but my "best" boyfriend was not slim!! Good luck and love yourself.
2007-06-03 22:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not true, unlike men, woman actually take the entire person into consideration when they are looking for a partner, not just the physical appearance. It may seem harder to you, but if you keep trying to find that special girl you will. And remember, we all like different things and there are girls out there that like men who are bigger then life. Just ask Notorious BIG
2007-06-03 22:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by Skyy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Is kinda hard to find girl that suites you. Like me having a hard time to find even I'm not fat and short.
Maybe try losing some weight but you also cannot be too poor, so get some job or something that lose you weight and make some money.
2007-06-03 22:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only true that you will never get the kind of woman who dislikes fat and is unable to see beyond it.
2007-06-03 22:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not true but you'll probably get a fat woman though.
Go to the gym, stop eating fast food junk and get your self all the women you can stand.
2007-06-03 22:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No i see many fat people with a beautiful girlfriend. Most girls are not that concerned about the appearance, they like the personality.
2007-06-03 22:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by davit4tru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really fat (obese) then it is damn near impossible. Then again look at Biggy. He was fat, dark, ugly, ****** eyed and he married Faith Evans. Maybe it was the money?
2007-06-03 22:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by robin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a slim girl with an oversized bf. But I truly love him for who he is.
So ya, NOT TRUE. Unless you are looking for good looking gals too, chances are...low.
2007-06-03 23:02:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋