I feel 15 asking this question lol!
I have a close male friend (yes there are benefits there too he he) In the last week or so my feeling towards him have changed. I always said that if I started to feel this way I would be honest and tell him. Now that its happened I cant bring the conversation up. He hasd noticed I'm a little distant and not myself but in a way i'm scared to say how I feel incase I lose him. I know I wont lose him as a friend but the sex is fantastic.
2007-06-03 21:24:41 · 6 answers · asked by laura_545 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you have to be honest, as if you aren't and he doesn't feel the same way then you will be hurt more in the long run by carrying on and staying quiet. You could try emailing him if you are too nervous to mention it face to face, even if it just says something like "I need to talk to you about where this is going between us". Otherwise I would say just get it over with and blurt it right out straight after sex one day soon.
2007-06-03 21:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's suppose to be a friend you shouldn't be having sex with him. That's a relationship to me. Having sex with a friend complicates things, you need to talk about this seriously. If he doesn't feel the same then stop the sex and just be friends. It will only end it tears otherwise.
2007-06-04 04:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Vixx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how your feeling you say his noticed youve been distant well that sounds like a bit of interest a guy once told me its better to tell how you fell rather then regret it and never know to this day im still beaming good luck
2007-06-04 04:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by likkle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Youve got a natural fear of being vulnerable but youve also got a fear of losing him.......try concentrating on what you want to happen in the near future not what might happen. when you focus on the good things that can happen theres more chance of it happening.
2007-06-04 04:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make love to him - rather than just sh.g him then after this tell him - men are always at their most vunerable and if he's also feeling this way then it's the best time to discuss -If not then you'll know - good luck
2007-06-04 05:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep on shaggin...ooh sex is fantastic eh? U need to give us more details I think...I'll shag ya if u want? I can pretend to be him
2007-06-04 04:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by oldgregsmangina 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋