For the grown up ladies!?

Question

I have been dating a guy for about 8 months and he is much more sexually expeirienced and worldly than I am. He is a good guy and has taught me a lot of things but if you do anything your man asks do you think it changes the way he thinks about you? Will he be happy because I please him or will he think I am just for sex and eventually want a girl that says no once in a while?

Answer 1

I guess it all depends on how "out-there" his requests are. You do have to be careful because there is a double standard here. A guy may like you a lot and then take you for granted or think that you are kind of easy. Maybe he will like you until he finds the girl that he can bring home to mama.

I am married and there are things my wife won't do. I spent a few years trying to talk her into things but the coolest part about making love is when both of you want it and are into it. Don't let him force you into something that you don't mutually enjoy and don't allow your love life to demean you... if you can follow these ideas then I bet what ever you are doing is healthy and fun. Good Luck

Answer 2

if he asks you to do stuff, do it because you WANT to, not because he's asking you to. if you do anything just to hang on to this guy, he'll think you're a doormat and will take advantage of you. or if he's sexually more experienced than you, then you should bring something else to the table in which you're the pro. that shows that you have some strong areas too.

Answer 3

After 8 months, tell him how much you are enjoying things. He will be happy he's the teacher. No, he doesn't want a girl who says no...

Answer 4

I guess maybe if you never seem to think for yourself, it could be a problem. But don't say no to things just to fill some quota of "No"s, you only need to say no to ideas you don't like. You might try making some suggestions of your own if you don't already; I'm sure you have ideas sometimes, ya?

Answer 5

Learn to say 'no.' Guys like a challenge. Don't be too available, don't see him every time he wants to see you. Be a little mysterious. Read the book, "The Rules" for more details.

Answer 6

I think that if you want to do these things with him you should not say no just to play hard to get. Trust me men to do not leave a women that satisfies them for someone who says no.
However, don't do these things bc of fear of losing him either. Go with your feelings and be true to yourself if you want the relationship to work.

Answer 7

he will eventually want a girl who says no once in while. guys want it all but if you please him all the time he wont appreciate it because guys will take things like that for granite because they will think they have you were they want you and why appreciate you anymore and then that is when they will catch the eye of the gal that says no.

Answer 8

Is he older than you? yes----he'll be happy you pleased him----duh! But do you love him and does he feel the same or is it just sex? You don't have to do everything he asked you to do if you aren't comfortable with it. I never met a man that wanted his gf or wife to say no when they want it but you can if you want.It's your body----not his!

Answer 9

Just be yourself and you'll be alright. Imagine yourself doing everything just to please people. THat is a slave! How long can you do that? What about you? Your needs? Respect yourself first, but at the same time serve others too. Just be tactful, dont let him "used" you.

Answer 10

I think if he is an adult and knows that you are not as experienced as he is, then he will understand. Just don't do anything you are uncomfortable with and he should respect that. If he wants something and you are open to try it, he will respect that as well.