ok so here is the deal....theres this guy that i had a lot of feelings for and still do...he was my first and...we dated for quite some time it didnt work out so good cuz of not having a lot of time for each other. we broke up it was mutual...k that was the background....NOW, ok me and him have been really good frends ever since we talk all the time and i know for a fact we both still have really stong feelings for eachother, COULD IT WORK THE SECOND TIME AROUND? please give me advice i really need it.....
2007-06-03 18:46:26 · 19 answers · asked by krisi a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it could work. The only way it will work though, is if you fix the problem you had in the past. You MUST make time for each other.
2007-06-03 18:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Blessed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been said that love is sweeter the second time around... find it out if it really does and then both of you would then be one of the living proofs of this adage.
Nonetheless, it is never wrong to try it again. Maybe what really caused to have not worked out the relationship before was not really the lack of time for each other., but actually to have failed to understand and consider each others constraints may it be with regards to work or whatever aspects other than that of the relationship u had. I don't know what topics you have been talking about lately but it must have been one of the reasons why you came to realize the relationship was not at all worth letting go of. And that 'time for each other' factor was just a shallow reason to have given it up...Follow your heart and good luck!:)
2007-06-04 02:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by enaira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about everything you went through, the good and the bad, the first time around, and ask yourself if you're willing to go through that again. If so, make sure whatever it was that broke the two of you up has changed... else there is no hope. And if that's fixed and you're willing to possibly get hurt again... go for it. Sometimes time apart is exactly what a couple needs to realize what they had.
2007-06-04 01:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by georgecostanza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse this can work i was in this same exact situation (except i'm a guy and liked a girl) The reason for the initial breakup was lack of time for each other or other stuff...not really any romantic problems. So if you do decide to get together make sure that you both have time for each other.. and it will work out great. hope i helped
2007-06-04 01:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Griz ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF course it could. If you 2 liked each other enough to stay friends then it has a great chance of working out. Just make sure that BOTH of you are ready to try again and are over any prior relationships before taking the leap again into a relationship together.
good luck
2007-06-04 01:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by hotelmajor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be talking this over with him. No one can tell you how something is going to turn out. You just need to talk to him, tell him how you feel, and let him respond. He'll either say, yes I feel the same way and we should try and give it a second chance. Or he'll say, no I don't feel that way and I don't wanna give it a second chance. Either way it goes you will know the answer to your question and you will have closure.
2007-06-04 02:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
yes it can work if you are both willing to give it a go, seems that you both have learned a lot more about each other since you went out together so just maybe its time to have another go ... you just never know ..... good luck
2007-06-04 02:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can, if you both have more time for each other this time around. Remember this is the issue you had in the past, so make sure that you both have time for each other.
2007-06-04 01:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by RT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the only reason it didn't work was the time issue, and you now have time for each other, then yes... it should work. But only if you do have time for one another, and that was the ONLY reason things didn't work out. Good Luck!
2007-06-04 01:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say how old either of you are but if the feelings are strong and mutual--it could work if you both want to work on the relationship.Not having alot of time together makes you more appreciative of the time you do have together!! Good luck!
2007-06-04 01:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by piowine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋