the guy i want to date was not raised with religion in his home,but me on the other hand i was raised in a christian home and im christian.......its not that hes atheist he was just never tought the word of god but i love him.....?????
2007-06-03 18:28:00 · 28 answers · asked by rachel duraham 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may love him, but the Word of God says not to be unequally yoked. If you want a lasting marriage, God has to be the center of it. If this guy isn't a Christian, then thats not going to happen. Get him involved with church, see where his heart is before you start dating him.
2007-06-03 18:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Blessed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this man is good to you and respects you then he is a keeper. If he believes in the existence of God then he is priceless.
A person doesn't have to be in a certain religion to be considered God-Fearing.
Take it from me. I was born and raised Catholic. Went to Catholic schools. I curse like a sailor. Drink..etc. I know I am a sinner but religion did not make me decide to be different, I CHOSE to be different.
People make their own choices. He's a good guy and he treats you well. Besides, maybe YOU could teach him the Word of God.
2007-06-03 18:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a Christian then you know the verse in the Bible that says that we are not to be unequally yoked....that means that we should not marry outside of our faith. When you start dating you must think of everyone you date as your potential mate. I don't know how old you are but I'm guessing that you're a teenager and are not looking for a lifetime mate but even so you need to be careful to date only those inside your faith. I hope that you will give this some thought before you date. I wish you well.
2007-06-03 18:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that there's nothin wrong in dating a non-christian guy..he is still a child of God and shouldnt be treated differently. Look into his heart and maybe if he is openminded enough, you can invite him to your church.. maybe he would be willing to listen to what u have to say and share about christianity. The impt thing is that you share the good news of being a christian because u truly want him to experience God's goodness and love, and not only bec u want him to be a christian to resolve your problem of him not being one. Pray about this matter..and God will surely lead you. Good Luck!
2007-06-03 18:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is much easier to get someone to attend church with you and teach him the word if he has no religious preference at all. It is MUCH harder to convert someone who was raised in a different religion all together. I say go for it. You could bring him to god, and that is the greatest gift you could give someone.. not to mention the service to god! Good Luck!
2007-06-03 18:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tina W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know if you love him if you have not dated him yet? It is also a lot different to not be brought up with religion, than to be an Athiest. Give him a chance. Maybe you can take him to church with you and he will see what you believe in.
2007-06-03 18:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're in love, then you didn't heed the warning signs before dating him. Having said that, there is much said in the Bible about having a partner that does not believe as you do. You have an uphill battle, which goes beyound just you. What about future children and functions that involve church, will he come, will your kids learn from him or you. Just things to think about.
2007-06-03 18:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should date him.. if you're concerned about him not being a christian and if you like him that much, then why don't you invite him to go to church once in a while after your first date.. maybe he'll like the experience.. if he doesn't, don't force him because it takes time for some people to absorb the words of God....
2007-06-03 18:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by gracee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to worry about this unless things get serious. Then you would have to decide how your children will be reared. Also, how much does it bother you that he isn't a Christian? Your parents will probably not like it either. Will you be satisfied if he never goes to church or converts?
2007-06-03 18:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take him to church before you take him on as a boyfriend. When there are deep religious differences it can cause hardships on relationships. The third time my husband called me for a date he asked "what are you doing tonight?" and I replied that I was going to church....would you like to join me? He came and that let me know that he was open minded and gave us the start for the dialog that was needed to find out if we were compatible spiritually.
2007-06-03 18:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by c r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋