ok so me and my boyfriend are like playing wierd games with eachother..i mean we love eachother soooooooo much but sometimes we try to make eachother jelouse by kinda flirting with other people to see how much we love eachother...is that nomal??
2007-06-03 18:11:36 · 19 answers · asked by cheer_blond_gal101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you guys are probably in high school because most adults dont play this game. i guess its normal for your age but communication is key so say what you need to say and be upfront or else you will just get the lame excuse of "UH Well I didn't know"
2007-06-03 18:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by mrh0bbs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That a game u two really need to stop playing. Because it's gonna get to a point where u gonna wonder if this is real or fake.
Jealousy is a serious issue some thinks it's cute but it can turn into a monster
It can also lead to one of u getting so mad that a fight and distrust will happen, and that u don't want.
Once u lose that then the relationship is no good, because he or u will always be on guard with each other.
If u two really love each othr then there is no reason for u to play these games.
Play other games thats fun
2007-06-03 18:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of first everything is normal. what i mean to say is normal is something what we humans have identified. This is normal this is abnormal and so on. As long as you two feel the love bloom with time everything is normal. Love in relationship should not fade caus of these extraneous factors. One can get physical either you or he but what really matters is the need for each other doesn't diminish. hope i could answer what you asked. Take care & be one of the lucky people to be in LOVE
2007-06-03 18:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by cooch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its healthy for the relationship, but i must admit, i think everyone does it. If you're not taking it too far, then i guess its not so bad. However, chances are one of these days you or him is gonna get fed up and you guys are going to get into a stupid argument and break up. so i would say stop doing it even though sometimes its nice to have a LITTLE jealousy. and its kind of cute. But have boundaries and dont make each other mad!!
2007-06-03 18:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is normal for me. my fiance we will be in the store and he will be looking at porn so I pick up something and start making comments about a guy then he starts making comments about a gurl but we finally quit it after i told him how annoying it was getting and how pissed off it was making me.
This is normal It just shows that u guys love each other !!!!!!!!! Talik to him and tell him how this makes you feel and ask him if when u make comments does he get mad u both will find out that it is all mind games...... It is definitly normal GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-06-03 18:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be concerned with what other people think of your relationship? Are you in a relationship for eachother or to impress other people? Who cares what others think is normal?
2007-06-03 18:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's immaturity more than "normal"..time to grow up if you want to find someone for real..If you're just kidding around well then it's all a part of the game you're playing...
2007-06-03 18:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal, but very immature. You should respect the bond that you have, and build on it, rather than trying to make each other jealous.
2007-06-03 18:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's normal.. testing one another's boundaries. Just don't take it too far, alright? Jealousy can make some people seeeriously crazy. But you're lucky that you both can handle it and he's not the insane possessive type.
2007-06-03 18:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by Chocolate_on_the_Moon 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No its childish and immature...if you loved each other there is no reason to have to prove it to the other.
One of these days one of the ones you both flirt with is going to actually look better than what you have and one of you is going to dump the other
2007-06-03 18:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋