2007-06-03 17:51:41 · 16 answers · asked by great_graces 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With class. It will make him feel uncomfortable and her wonder about you. If act like an idiot it makes him look better in the wife's eyes. Like "no wonder he broke up with you" or "What did you ever see in her." Be respectful and classy. It will make him wonder what he's missing, or why he let you go.
2007-06-03 17:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Big Daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would treat her like any other person, with respect. If it was a bad break-up and my ex and I are not on good terms, I'd just keep it as casual as conversing with a stranger, just small talk. There's no need for anything more than that. If I was on good terms with my ex, friends even, I'd try to strike up a friendship with his wife, if possible. If I would like my ex in my life, she'll need to be included too.
No, there wouldn't really be any jealousy or ill will directed because my ex is an ex for a reason. Just because things didn't work out between us does not mean he isn't entitled to find some happiness elsewhere.
2007-06-03 18:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having been in a situation like this before....act cool, collected and confident. Don't try to be her friend but be tolerant. Remember the reason that you are all together and try to focus on that instead of remembering things from the past. Also, try not to put yourself in a situation that would make you or him feel uncomfortable such as talking or looking at each other when she isn't right there. Avoid confrontations.
2007-06-03 18:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by lilbeamlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and her are friends, there is no problem with that. If, however, she doesn't know you and about your relationship with her husband (your ex), pretend that everything is fine with you and your world. Do you still have feelings for your ex? If you do, then pretend that it does not hurt you anymore, that his marriage to another girl does not concern you. Don't give the other woman the satisfaction to see you still suffering from heartache if she knows about your past relationship with her husband. If your ex introduces you to his wife, just smile and like I said, pretend that everything is all right with you. Act normal, feel normal and think normal.
2007-06-11 16:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by annabelle p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that's tough. It depends on how much I had to be around her. If you just run across her (or them) somewhere I would say hi to both, then go on.
But if you have reason to see her on a regular basis (like if you and he have a child together), you need to learn to be friends with her. (To a point at least)
And finally, if you don't have to be around her, have no reason to be her friend, and she came into the picture before you were out of it... act like she did you a favor because she did!
2007-06-03 17:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by okiehel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respectful. I also respect people and treat them nicely. Why should I assume she is a bad person as long as she is treating me nicely. Set a good example. Afterall, you must of let him go or he wouldn't be married. If you are revengeful and rude maybe you should push the blame on you. Sounds like you still have feelings for him. Out of respect you owe it to his wife to step back and let go. He has moved on and now it is time for you to move on. He will respect and like you more for it. Be the good person and set the good example. Leave making him wonder why he let you go too. That my friend is the biggest revenge. Look happy with your life and be happy with your life. Good Luck!!!
2007-06-03 17:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by lovelyandcarefree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whilst couples divorce, their pals have great concern in understanding which area to stay pals with, as little question you have found out the troublesome way. He became into attempting to make issues mushy and family individuals like for his son, i'm so sorry it backfired. yet all awards to him, for attempting, a great hearted gentleman.
2016-11-25 20:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by dhermendra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect, absolutly perfect. Just remember he's your Ex for a reason, now she's stuck dealing with these reasons. But remember that you must behave like a true lady.
2007-06-11 14:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like him act like a ghost!!
If you do not have feelings about him anymore, then you a resource of knowledge to her, use that as an icebreaker. Just be courteous in that you do not make her uncomfortable
2007-06-11 05:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by yourguessisasgoodasyours 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIKE A HO.
hhahaha just kidding.
act sophisticated. don't act jealous or anything. show her you're not at all interested in what you USED to have. you don't want it anymore & she's free to have it.
be cordial, but definitely don't try to be her best friend or anything. not off the bat. who knows, you two might hit it off.
don't judge her too quick.
2007-06-03 17:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by mandasaurus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋