ok well i have been talking to this guy that is my dads ex girlfriends son. well after they broke up, i have never talked to him since. so one day he all of a sudden starts talking to me on messenger. so i start talking to him and then all of a sudden he tells me how much he liked me and how hot i was. and i was shocked! i didn't know what to say! (and i also liked him back then. so i told him that)and he suggests that we should go out or something. and i really like him! but what aboutg my dad? and his mom? thats what iam scared of. its hard we have so much in common to. so what should i do!? please help me! ( by the way my dad and his ex gf are both re married!! ) thanks!
2007-06-03 17:43:34 · 24 answers · asked by Larissa loves austin! :]] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my dad and his gf are NOT together! what i ment was they are both remariied to different people!!
2007-06-03 17:49:37 · update #1
Just date him, his mom and your dad are both adults
2007-06-03 17:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your dad and see what he says. I don't think there would be a problem, unless your dads new wife found out and maybe would or would not care. You have no reason not to date him really, but I suggest you tell your dad in private of course, that you want to date him. You didn't say how old you were, so I can't say I would just go for it, which I would if you were eighteen. Having to live with your remarried dad creates an issue. Your new step mom will maybe get very upset if she found out about an old girlfriend ,but then again she may already know and not care. ASK DAD Best of luck to you.
2007-06-04 00:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Cassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is pretty awesome. If your dad and his mom were dating before, then if things really go well between you and Mr. Hottie then you'll know that the in-laws will be getting along (unless there was a terribly break-up between them). Sure it'll be awkward at first, but your dad and his mom just want you guys to be happy, so if this makes ya happy then go for it! And it is kind of a good thing that it didn't work out between your parents or else you'd be step-siblings by now. haha eck! Good luck with everything!!
2007-06-04 00:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Chocolate_on_the_Moon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all really depends on how old you are? I guess I would talk to you Dad about this. Let him know u r going to be hanging out with him! How serious of a relationship and break up did you dad and his mom have? You two are not them and should be entitled to date/hang if you want to! I don't see the harm in it, but I would be up front with you dad about it.
Best of luck to you!
2007-06-04 00:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by pinkribbons&walking4boobies 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their relationship is in the past, don't let that get in the way of something that could be great for you! If it bothers you that much, talk to your father about it and tell him that you really like this guy. I wouldn't ask for his permission, I would just let him know so he has a heads up about it. I hope this helped some, goodluck =]
2007-06-04 00:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are both remarried and happy, then they have moved on and there shouldn't be a problem. If you really like this guy then talk to your dad and tell him and get his oppinion. Parents aren't as bad as you think and can be quite understanding if you give them a chance.
2007-06-04 00:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Smarty Pants 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you both should do is inform your parents that you want to date & would it be ok. Before you get any firther involved, you may be unfair to your parents if you don't let them know how you feel. You have nothing to lose as yet, but if you wait & get seious your parents then might end up with problems. If you Love your parents you will put there feelings first. If they love you they will understand.
2007-06-04 00:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Amma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your dad. Ask him if it would make him at all uncomfortable if you went out with this guy. I really doubt it would bother him since he is married now, but you should still ask.
2007-06-04 00:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by bakerbride2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they have both moved on it doesn't seem like it would be a problem, but you really shoudl be having this talk with your Dad.
2007-06-04 00:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eww... that would have made yall step-brother/sister.... but anyways.. if they are remarried now, then I'd say go for it. But how old are you two first? If your just lil kids then dont even go for it... Make sure you are responsable and mature. Like over 16.
2007-06-04 00:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋