Why is it so hard for me to find a girlfriend?

Question

Reason why I'm asking is because it's been 5 years since my last relationship, and I'm currently going through a drought. I have always ended relationships on good terms and have been a good soul, but I feel everyday God is screwing me royally...

Answer 1

Oh, come now, God has nothing to do with this. It's all a matter of choices and self worth. You sound like a great guy but unless you believe it and act like it no one will notice it and appreciate it. I will tell you though what girls find attractive.
Self confidence, honesty, good sense of humor, playfulness. romance... they hate desperation and hard work. Take it easy and it will come. Believe it and it will happen. Learn to smile, really smile. It's a magnet. It works. Good luck!

Answer 2

i've never actually been in a relationship with a girl and I'm 15! the first girl who I've liked who atleast likes me back a little (im not sure how much she likes me though) everytime im going to go up to her and ask her out she gets up and goes somewhere, and she doesnt see me coming up to her because it's always right before im going to approach her. i feel the same way, it's like God is saying to her, "You'll get special treatment in heaven if you get up and leave right now because *insert my name here* is about to go ask you out, and I don't care that I'm supposed to love all my creations, let's make his life miserable! HAHAHA"

I've actually believed that's what was happening at times because I get so pissed when I lose my chance (especially when her mom showed up to pick her up from school just when she was sitting on a bench all alone and I was less than 20 feet away from her, &@#%!!!!!)

But I'm sure God isn't screwing with you, have you even asked any girls out in 5 years? the only one God is screwing with is me lol (i know that's not true though)

Answer 3

It might be because you are sending off a needy and desperate vibe. If you act as if you need a girl, then you are putting pressure on her to feel a certain way. Relax, learn to be satisfied with just your own company, and learn to be comfortable with who you are.

If you need more help, try going to doubleyourdating dot com, and sign up for the free advice newsletter.

Answer 4

1. There is no God so stop praying and get your butt in the field.
2. Find a girl you like, make her laugh, be playfully mean to her, and give her flowers.
3. If you want a more specific answer, ask a more specific question.

Answer 5

1. Get off the computer.
2. Move out of your mom's basement.
3. Stop playing World of Warcraft.

Answer 6

Do your best to be in social situations where you'll be available to meet girls. Some people say you should "not look."
I say screw that. You've got to be willing to make an effort. Continue being yourself and you'll eventually find someone who thinks you're all right.

Answer 7

Because you are here asking "Why is it so hard for me to find a girlfriend?" and not out there finding. Get your butt off the computer.

God isn't screwing you, you are screwing yourself.

Answer 8

You say you have ended relationships on good terms, do you also live your relationships on good terms?

How to get a new one is anyone's guess, we need more info.

Answer 9

Don't worry about it. If you are fat, lose weight. Don't appear desperate when you have a date. Look at it as a friendship that may develop into something

Answer 10

You create drought and blame God.

No wonder you're alone.

Why not try to be the real you.