i live with my uncle he's my uncle somehow idk how and my mom and dad and siblings and other uncle and my grandma. Well my big uncle is like 40 something and he touches me. he just did it a lil while im like 'GET OFF OF ME!' and he's like 'dont tell nobody nothing...nothing' and im like scared to tell anyone i was gonna tell my grandma but i couldnt...and now i dont noe wat to do....
2007-06-03 10:15:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell someone immediately.
I would say go to the Police first, and do it now. Don't bother with other places. This is your future happiness we are talking about here, not the momentary "kicks" of some pervert.
I can't impress upon you enough how important it is that you do this now. And especially if he told you not to tell anyone, this puts him in a position of control of your life, if you do what he wants.
You need to do this now, not later, when it's too late and he has physically harmed you. He's mentally and emotionally harming you right now.
GO----DO IT NOW!
2007-06-03 10:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Cranky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone. What your uncle is doing is wrong and should be stopped now. Tell your grandmother immediately. Or tell your mother and Dad or some other family member. If that does not help talk to your school counselor or minister before he does even more or does it to someone else.
2007-06-03 17:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, you really need to tell someone so that the situation will not continue. Please tell your grandma, she wants you to be safe. If this guy continues and you haven't told someone, he might go further. If he continues, you can plant a knee in an delicate place on his anatomy and SCREAM your head off. I know you are afraid, but he has no right to do this to you. Please tell for your safety before he does more. Nobody should touch you that way especially if you are not in agreement.
2007-06-03 19:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your grandma now. Don't wait until he tries to touch you again. It is not your fault. Your uncle has problems and he'll have to deal with them.
2007-06-03 10:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by iluvturtles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you absolutely need to tell someone thats wrong wrong wrong dont be scared youve done nothing wrong at all hes the one with issues not you! If you cant tell your family tell a friends mom maybe shell help you talk to your family. Be strong.
2007-06-03 10:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a teacher or counselor you can talk to, a best friends mom, your mom anybody???? Please do not let this go on, here is a number to call
Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-CHILD
Please make the call and get some help
2007-06-03 10:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone,to a teacher or your granma..u shouldn't care if your uncle told u ot to say anything!
2007-06-03 10:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should tell your family memebers, your mom or dad, because imagine if he did it to you, he might even do it to your sisters if you have some, or maybe to your cousins, tell on him. Dont be scared, nothingits going to happen to you.
2007-06-03 10:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to lead to rape, he is trying to get you used to him, call the police today. Now you been warned if it happens you're partly to blame for keeping quiet about it. He is TESTING YOU.
2007-06-03 11:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to tell him to knock it off or you will tell your grandmother. It most likely won't stop till you do.
2007-06-03 10:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋