I am 47 my wife is 22 soon to be 23 well we have 2 kid 2year old and 7 month old and right now i having problem with having sex with her. she wants it but i dont to afraid to get her pregnet again and i know of codoms and other thing but money is part of the problem i been told i need to get fix witch is 600. 00 to have it done and she alrgic to latax and i am to sheep skin and it cost for the shots for her i dont know what to do i love her very much and my kids too help me please. i am the only one earning an income and it only about 800.00 a month.
2007-06-03 10:01:48 · 7 answers · asked by Gary B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Go to a planned parenthood clinic she can probably get on the pill for nothing
2007-06-03 10:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Pengy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have her look into getting an IUD. They are very cost effective, most insurance covers it and if not the cost is cheaper than other forms of birth control. There are very few side effects and absolutely maintenance free. It lasts up to 10 years but can be reversed immediately. I have 3 children but due to the fact that me and my husband are still under 30 and may decide to have kids in the future, I use an IUD and it is the best thing ever. She can Google it to read more about it and also she should discuss it with her GYN. Good luck.
2007-06-03 17:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by PharmNerd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you work and have good insurance...then there should not be that much of a problem with you getting a vascetomy. your wife on the other hand will have a much harder time getting her tubes tied. if there is no protection of any kind (condoms, IUD, tubal, birth control) then there is a very HIGH chance that she could get pregnant again. besides...it is HER body. if you want to make love to your wife on a regular and frequent basis then you need to find a solution to prevent future pregnancies. she can try getting an IUD if you have good insurance. if your insurance (if you have it) covers vasectomy then all you will need is a co-pay. if one doctor will not perform the neccessary operiatoin...you need to keep looking until you do. some of these doctors exercise power that they never had over our bodies and using 'morals' as an excuse for not performing certain procedures that they spent over $100,000 going to medical school to get. seriously...i just wish that more people would adopt your wife's strategy...no birth control = no sex. i also wanted to add that you could try going to your local adulty novelty store or find them on the web. there are TONS of items out there to satisfy the 'need' for both sexes. at least this is an option until you get what you need so you can have sex with your wife again. but please don't be afraid to try...you may like it.
2007-06-03 17:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to be out working to help with the income. Then maybe she could afford the shots, birthcontrol pills or whatever.At the age of 22, you would think she wouldn't want any more children and might come up with a solution on her own. Children are very expensive to raise, so you might consider the cost of another child vs a vesectomy.
2007-06-03 17:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, hats off to you for attaching yourself to a child. Now check out planned parenthood. There are other ways of pleasing a women and you are old enough to have heard some of the rumors. Since you have access to the internet consider expanding your knowledge.
2007-06-03 17:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by penny B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two should check into either Planned Parenthood or a county health clinic. Both usually have pro-rated payment plans based on income.
2007-06-03 20:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by Critter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to plan parenthood they help woman in her situation with birth control.
2007-06-03 17:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by diana h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋