guy friend flirted with me about us hooking up. the thing is he has a gf overseas and is engaged to her and knew I developed a deep crush on him. We exchanged a few words about getting together like where we do it, and if we would use protection, etc. I was really falln 4 him and he told me that it was best that i focus on someone else. anyway a few days later, I texted him to wish him Happy New Year's and he didn't text back and i got upset and called him a dog. I then wrote him a note apologizing to him and suggested that we stop texting each other about sex. Weeks later, he looked at me like he was angry but still said hi. I emailed him asking him if he was still upset and that it might be best that we treat each other as coworkers. he replied back and told me that i was too weird and that he was just jokin and that i should get some friends and a bf. Now we don't talk since I've been ignorin him, but when we run into each other, he says hi.
2007-06-03 09:10:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop texting and emailing him! He was playing and you took it seriously. Big mistake.
2007-06-03 09:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some weird way I can kind of understand why she over reacted, all you here these days is about kids being abducted, all parents are on their guard and suspicious of everyone. sad, but this is the world we live in. however, she plainly saw that you were helping him and not trying to take him away to sell to the slave trade or whatever so she is a total b**** If my kid was running thru a festival and someone helped him up after a fall or prevented him from falling I'd be grateful to the person that helped out. I wouldn't worry myself about this, she's probably just an overbearing parent, and was paranoid about being somewhere public and crowded, and possibly lost sight of her son which panicked her more. You done a good thing, you know that yourself, she's just very ungrateful
2016-05-20 03:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember this same story someone wrote a week or two maybe ago, I would focus on someone else I mean think about it, " he has a fiance over seas" he is playing you, I mean how do you think she feels...exspecailly if she found out, I hope they dont get married and she realizes what she is getting into...he is cheating on her with you, I dont think its over reascting when you walk away, you need to find someone else...if he play her he`ll play you, he wasnt kidding, he just said it was a joke because his nasty balls got horny again....girl you better go find you someone else thats worthy of your time and isnt a cheater...I wouldnt even say anything to him when he waved I`d just walked by...gosh I`d tell his fiance too
2007-06-03 09:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not every guy will throw themselves at every girl. He's engaged and is probably happy with his fiance. You shouldn't have called him a dog. He might be one of those people that, holds a grudge forever. He's being polite when he says hi to you. Find another guy that cares for you, and wilil stand by you no matter what.
2007-06-03 09:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by samantha-allison. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I have to ask, how would YOU feel if someone else was after your b/f? You know he has a g/f overseas and yet you're so eager to jump in the sack with him. Secondly, if a guy who is taken is willing to jump in the sack with you, it doesn't mean they're serious about you. That is what you're seeing in this guy, so don't be so surprised.
2007-06-03 09:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by Faith . 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds as if he does not want to be put in an awkward situation in his relationship because of compromising conversations with you...he is trying to be civil but distant. Best thing to do is be polite when you see him, say hi, and do focus on someone else.
2007-06-03 09:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by watercresswithnail 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, GROW UP.
Second, ask yourself, why are you responding to a flirt from another woman's man.
Third, quit being a phone sex freak.
Fourth, find something constructive to do with your time, it'll save on your phone bill.
2007-06-03 09:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shame on you for wanting someone Else's fiancee!!
Same on him too for trying to cheat on his girl!
Too, Well he may have been caught or tipped by someone who knew his fiancee' about flirting with you.
I hoep she finds out and breaks up wiith him!
As far as your freindship with him if he doesnt want anything to do with you now ,he is no better then you are!
I'd forget about him and do as he suggested find your own UNATTACHED BOWE!!
2007-06-03 09:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i beat he thought it was fun found out he has feelins for u but loves his g/f much much more and feels gulity........ so to stop the guilt hes building walls between u. Did u feel guilt knowing about his g/f?
2007-06-03 09:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by silvernightthorn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both lowlifes. He wanted to cheat and you acted like a fool.
2007-06-03 09:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋