any good men left?

Question

are their any good men left out their b cos i keep meeting the wrong ones all i get is blokes telling me a load of XXXX about how happy they r with me and how they want long term things they they go all cold after a few months or if not that i meet the ones who have girlfriends and lie to me is nobody just honest anymore ?

Answer 1

I'm here.

Answer 2

If you keep meetng the same kind of guys, chances are you keeping looking in the same kinds of places. What is the thing that happens after a few months that is in common with each of your last few relationships that they all turned sour at or about the same time?

You know, some folks are always thinking about leaving where they are to start over somewhere else. But when they get to the new place, the same things happen all over again. You want to know why? Even though they've gone somewhere new, they are still the same person.

You should join a nice church or synangogue. There you will meet people your age, who have something in common, other than going to nightclubs.

People who believe in G-d, are going, less likely, to be the type who are going to lie to you. You're also more likely to find someone who is willing to be committed.

Answer 3

Dear Zoe,
Yes sweet one...there are good men out here. I think I know where you're comin from...like the fire of love dies down after a while? sometimes it does I believe, usually when one or both fail to know & understand the other.
Don't fear there are decent men around. I am confident now that I am of a mature age that I am a good man. From my point of view in my circle of workmates and friends around there are only a few I would consider decent, I mean toward women. (if I was a couple yrs younger I'd romance ya and prove it)
May I suggest you relax a little and don't give up on men, or develope a dislike for all men for the sake of a few jerks who don't make it easy for the good guys.
He will come along when you least expect it so get busy with what YOU want to do in life and you'll find each other. Who knows, you may already know him?
Best to you sweet girl in a panic....
Hank

Answer 4

Zoe M, Honey, back in 85 I had a wreck on my motercycle and have been a shut in ever since ! Where did all the "gentlemen and ladies" go ? Honesty and respect, the golden rule? It is a whole different world out there. Honey I am a good old fashioned man but after two head injuries in two years I am mentally good but physically kinda messed up. I look O.K. but my left side is kinda disabled.Just want you to know that Jesus loves you and so do I ! Kenny M.

Answer 5

Yours is a common tale. The bad boy magnet. You need to make a list of all the things that attract you in the first place to these types. And, be honest with yourself. What you need to do is condition yourself and your mind to think differently.
Perhaps you are a fixer and like to help people...well, the problem with that is the only person you can work on is yourself and its impossible to save anybody. What I would do is take your life and make it great for you. Surround yourself with good people that make you feel good. Stay away from the loser druggies and concentrate on being the best person you can be. Think positive and positive people will come into your life. Good luck.

Answer 6

hello,
well the question that u have put forward is really very difficult to answer but i will be honest to u and will try to explain the scenario to you.see the only truth nowadays is that noone is without a girlfriend or a boyfriend.so,some of the people they have this habit of telling lies.you do not be depressed and sad Im not going to tell u any lie.I had a girlfriend but now we are not together anymore.It is after the breakup that I do not believe in so called Love but yeah i assure u I can be a true and trustworthy friend of your forever.If u feel like u are alwayz welcome.

Answer 7

Yes there are. Because my boyfriend is one of the sweetest guys ever. And we have been together for 1 year and almost 5 months now. He always puts me first and stands up for me to anyone including his friends. So there are some guys out there that aren't like the rest. You just gotta find 'em. Thats the hard part. Remember actions speak louder than words!

Answer 8

There are good men out here in this cruel world. But, men even good men can turn on a person, just like a dog would turn on his owner of you mistreat us.

I've never mistreated a woman, i've always treated her like an angel - in high school i used to enjoy making them feel good.

Now, im sort of with someone, she is very different to me, where i would show love and share a joke, she seems to enjoy showing the opposite. It defies me why women would want to get so deep into a relationship if they dont know the other person first. I would call it sillyness if you get hurt before you really have got to know the person.

Your lucky, because you will someday meet that perfect man, that will make you feel special, just because you havent found him yet doesnt mean to say you wont.

There are plenty of good men - with good values in us because we believe in them and wouldnt turn against them because we dont want to hurt people intentionally. We use these virtues to set them apart from the people who you probably have met, and been treated badly by. But dont judge or tarnish us all with the same brush.

And, just continue to love. Obviously, dont rush head over hills in love with someone when you dont know them well enough to judge whether he will appreciate it.

I personally enjoy and do fully appreciate the love my gf gives, but so far she aint being doing a bang up job. She should be here with me, but she rather be somewhere else other than with me, and i suppose my question would be: "are there any good women left?" Because in all my experiences i can enjoy talking to them, but for some reason when i try to show them affection they seem to want to destroy everything good in me? I wouldnt consider myself a bad man, rather clean considing the world we live in today where men act like idiots and women act even worse.

I prefer the old times, when you would walk across the land, and meet people enjoy peoples company because they wouldnt be mean and so full of crap. I suppose its because of change in times, the world has got more cruel and hurtful.

I doutbt even a well-meaningful angel would enjoy his time here. And, you wonder why men act this way? Search the field, by being good and honest. If you know straight away whether the man is good then you know straight away you will always want to be with him. The tricky part is not to give him grief, and he must equally do the same. Never to hurt you.

But, you woman, like to think and pretend your hurt even when we havent done a single wrong against you. I have to be honest and say you think the whole species of men are hating creatures, and you will never find an angel. Your a non-believer.

Men dont turn bad for any stupid reason, it usually is because we have been so mistreated that is the only way we know how to put up a front (or in your experience actually behave). Just like with women, if you mistreat them then they turn bad, and some are incapable of fully appreciating love, because they associate every man in this God's green earth with the same attitude. They (you women) think that by mistreating a man ever more will somehow be the answer to your problems. What will it solve, being so abusive?

I believe that every woman will and can find her perfect match! The match, my love, depends on how you act and behave! If you want a gentleman then act like a lady, and associate yourself to those places. I would also say, never to change the person who you loved being (no-man ever wants a woman that is vicious and revengeful), and although you are in pain, remember how you was and treat that wound so that it will heal. Because if you leave it open then you lose yourself and you eventually become a person you dispise.

Everyone has been hurt, whether physically or mentally, just be good. Believe in finding the right man, a good man. But, with that attitude and seems like where your finding them would also be a major problem, you wont find anything.

Answer 9

It all depends on who you meet. Yes there are good honest guys out there. It just requires a big amount of patience to find the right one. If your looking maybe you could take a break and stop looking. Let them come to you.

Answer 10

Yes there are still good men out there but maybe God wants you to experience things before you find that someone so you know exactly what you need to make you life even better.

Answer 11

Of oourse there are.I would fall into your category of trustwothy and respectful but unfortuhately I am much too old for you,,But there must be others out there younger than me.You are probably looking in the wrong places..