I miss having a guy around to be there me, and its like i feel i should be with someone again:( and having the comfort of a guy caring about you and supporting you is lovely, why do i feel like this?
2007-06-03 05:31:20 · 12 answers · asked by juicyx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your missing the boaby?
2007-06-03 05:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by bastaad 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
We are wired not to be alone. Nothing wrong with that. But the way you are describing it; it sounds like a man fulfills a need in you that you don't know how to get elsewhere. A better question to ask is why do I need to be comforted? What is built in inside of me that makes me feel I can't get this from family and friends? Why don't I get comfort from my job? Be introspective on why it is that you can only get this from a man. When you can get this from other places; you will be ready to be in a relationship.
2007-06-03 12:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ranger D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it normal when i was in high school not to make my self sound like a trap but i always had someone there with me and i dont know i guess it kinda made me feel safe. Mybe you just like feeling the company or always having someone to talk to.
2007-06-03 12:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Star™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're lonely and want someone to be around with you. My guess is that you're used to having someone by your side.
You have two options:
1.) Find another boyfriend, or
2.) Hang out with other people and do different things with them
2007-06-03 12:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by ryan_runner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, everyone feels like this way after losing a guy..... you'll get used to it, just enjoy being single for now, a guy is not everything you know..
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2007-06-03 12:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by heart_x_surgery 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
many find it lonely when a relationship breaks down. Try to enjoy your new found time alone and get out to meet people again.
2007-06-03 12:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you get into the mindset that without a man in your life you are worthless you need to learn to appreciate yourself and enjoy being on your own get to know who you are. when you are in a relationship you loose a lot of yourself. i have been in this situation and the lonliness is hard but with time it gets easier and you enjoy it.
2007-06-03 12:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your talking about im exactly the same after 6 months then all on your own is horrible but he was an utter **** to me i know im only 14 but it still is horrible x
2007-06-03 12:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Cσυятηєуу вяυνν* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just answered your own question, having someone there to care about you is very comforting, when they are not there you can feel low and you are not constantly being reminded that you are appreciated.
:) xx
2007-06-03 12:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by kjonno91 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it wasn't for guys and girls to get together, none of us would have ever been born. Now figure.
2007-06-03 12:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jack S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will get use to it but injoy all the free time to you self and take it a day at a time
2007-06-03 12:37:49 · answer #11 · answered by taz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋