ive been with my girlfriend who i reeli love for about 7 months nw,(shes 16 im 17) bt its bin hard because of her parents not approving but we stayed together and its ok betwn us now. bt ive bin having dis feeling of being inferior to her coz she cmes from a very rich family and they always buy her whot she wants so she lives life very comfortably compared to me where im from a broken up family in the middle of a divorce plus my parents are skint compared to hers coz they never went uni and sometimes i think thats why they dnt approve of me coz my familys not up to their standards. i love my gf alot and were open about evrything and im able to tell her wots troubling me for example problems i ave at home n shes always there and so am i but i sometmes feel small 2 her because she always tells me what her family gets her n the big holiday shes going to be having soon whch shez reeli excited 4, n im really happy for her bt i cnt help it any ideas 2 help? im not a jealous type either.
2007-06-03 04:34:30 · 8 answers · asked by lovestruck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i love you!
2007-06-09 14:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are really understanding about your gf, and that sounds great.
I would talk to your gf and tell her how you feel, maybe ask her not to talk so much about the things she gets from her family as it makes you feel bad. If she is a great gf, she'll care how you feel and try to be considerate about that.
I think it's pretty normal for you to feel the way you do if you compare yourself to her family. I wouldn't do that if I was you. I'd figure out what you want out of life and go for it. There is no reason you cannot be successful every bit as her family is, and you shouldn't let your feelings keep you back.
Stay true to yourself, and recognize what you do have going for you. You must have something great going for you, because your gf likes you, and look where she comes from!
2007-06-11 03:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son, you need to stop worrying about the girl and focus on your school work. I don't think I've ever read anything with so many misspellings and such horrible grammar. If the way your wrote this is the way you talk, well THAT is the reason her parents don't like you. Time to grow up, walk like a man and learn to speak like a man.
2007-06-03 12:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Bear~~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need an education more than you need money. If you want to have a decent income and live well you need to prepare yourself by getting good grades and going to college. Her parents will take you seriously if you show them that you have a good head on your shoulders.
2007-06-03 12:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her about it .....maybe its just you being a little paranoid just because your not rich doesnt make you not good enough or maybe she needs to tone down her bragging either way it sounds like you love each other stick with it it sounds a good relationship
2007-06-03 11:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by sweetchant1lly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U sound like a cute person, even i'm in love but my situation isn't like yours, i can't really say much. all i could say is "let love have its way!" Just love her and let her love u, forget trivial things, these things might only cause problems for u guys.
2007-06-10 11:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Hot Alesa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work hard and get an education, then you can be a good prospect in her parents eyes.Remember no guy is ever good enough in daddy's eyes for his little girl.
2007-06-10 06:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO BE HONEST IF HE DOES LOVE YOU SHE'LL TELL YOU AND SHOW YOU HOW MATERIALISTICE THINGS MEAN NOTHING TO HER ALTHOUGH IF SHE IS REALLY INTO TO HER LUXURIOUS LIFESTYLE UNFORTUNETLY THERE MAYBE NO HOPE BUT FRET NOT THAT JUST MEANS THAT SHES NOT THE ONE
2007-06-08 13:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋