My girlfriend just broke up with me. I was told from friends because I wasn't aggressive enough with her. I'm a nice, quiet guy who is a bit naive when it comes to dating. My question is, how can I be more aggresive?
2007-06-03 04:17:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all girls like the same thing, so don't worry about the "not being aggressive enough" thing. Some girls will dislike you BECAUSE you're aggressive. Just be the nice quite guy you are, and find yourself a girlfriend who appreciates those qualities in you.
2007-06-03 04:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Your next girlfriend might not like aggresive guys
2007-06-03 11:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by silly_me 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When she opens the door---suck her neck, while you sweep her in your arms. She wants to be handled with passion! Its the thrill thing, confidence is stimulating to the senses, like a rollercoaster ride. Shes been passionately taken before, and its hard to give-up. Be aware no still means no-though.
2007-06-03 11:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentleman, but try not to be so "nice" that you don't do anything. Initiate some physical intimacy, but be ready to back off. "Aggressive" is not usually a good plan of attack.
2007-06-03 11:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Clifton 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to be yourself! Find a girl that likes you, not something that you are not. You should never have to learn to be a certain way, cause in the end, it's not you!!!!
2007-06-03 11:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by vega_five 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant be agrecive.. you cant make a girl love you.. you just have to be funny.. thats it!!! watch Friens, Family guy, Download some stand up comedy shows...Learn some jokes.. make her Laugh not AT you nut at her self.. tease her.. make fun of her.. create this INNER FEEELINGS in her that not a guy could give her.. Dont have anything to say? FART LOUDLY.. it makes her to hate you .. not HTE but INNER FEELINS.. dont be boring.. never tell her she is beautifull tell her how her clothes stink.. why her breast is so small.. the feeling that you can create in her about you will b for ever in her heart...
2007-06-03 11:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by ruslanriad 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just be yourself. You shouldn't have to change for anyone. She may not have been the right girl for you...but just image that Ms. Right is out there waiting for you to find her!
2007-06-03 11:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by hellokitty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't try to pretend you're something else, because it will always show. if she doesn't like you for what you are, then that's too bad. the idea is to be with someone who likes YOU
2007-06-03 14:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by succubus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more open and daring
talk dirty to her in public
stroke her thighs or go further than that in the cinema
don give sweet, short, cute kisses.
give powerful, passionate and forceful yet gentle ones.
2007-06-03 11:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by apple-licious 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do like Tarzan
2007-06-03 11:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by Happy Feet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋