They don't appreciate anything I do. I told them I have good grades on my report card that didn't come in the mail yet, but they don't believe me. I always get good grades, so there is no reason to think otherwise. Why do they hate me?
2007-06-03 03:40:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
CONCERNED? WTF DOES THAT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THIS.
2007-06-03 03:46:41 · update #1
maybe they're trying to trick you into thinking that they don't care and that they think you're lying,so that when you least expect it, they'll give you a present for your good grades ^_^
if not, then just ignore, it. as long as you know that you try hard and get good grades, then that's all that matters ^_^
2007-06-03 06:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by ^_^ ♥ §atsuki_☼ushiza ♥ ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Negative thinkers can be discouraging but just keep on doing your thing. Maybe your dad has a guilty conscience, which may cause him to feel that because he was untruthful, at your age, you must be untruthful to him. That type of constant negativity is not good to have around, but when it's happening in your home, it can be painful, but DO NOT let it break you down. This is why it's important that your circle of friends and the people you spend the most time around are good, quality, positive people.
Moreover, your dad/ family may believe in tough love, but that is not always the answer, nor is it necessary for every child. Here is some food for thought, so remember this: Every single social problem on this earth all boils down to someones personal problem that they have failed to address.
Therefore, the real problem is not you. The problem is them. Your job is to make sure that their negativity doesn't rub off on you, otherwise, you'll be just like them.
I had the same problem growing up. I am now 26, and I've learned to pray for those whom try to bring me down, and that has made me a much better person and them as well.
Keep your head up! This too shall pass!
2007-06-03 11:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Corey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real !!! Evaluate Your past record,
1) How many lies have you told
2) How many times have you been caught saying or doing wrong
3) How trustworthy are you as a friend and daughter
Your language and rage say alot so far ,,,,,,,, think about it
All they have to do is go to the school and request a copy of your grade card. It's all on permanent record.
2007-06-03 15:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by iambettyboop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't they believe you? Just tough it out until the grades come in the mail. I don't think they hate you. They are probably upset about something else and misdirecting their anger. It's wrong but I don't know that there is much you can do about it.
2007-06-03 10:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them keep raising their suspicions and then maybe give them a "fake" reason too as well. So then when it really does come in the mail and they see all the good grades you can rub it in your fathers face and say "I know you don't trust me, you've proven that to me and im really dissapointed in you... and..."
He'll get mad at you and just yell at you for something else but your right and hes wrong, and thats what counts.
2007-06-03 10:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even parents makes mistakes sometimes, so just wait until your report card comes and then they will know you weren't lying and they will feel bad for not believing you.
2007-06-03 11:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents doesnt hate you.They are just concerend.
2007-06-03 10:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tropical_Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋