my mum and dad want to talk to me but i don't want to. they put me in to care. so i said i don't want to see them ny more
2007-06-03 03:25:36 · 19 answers · asked by Alice G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
they probably had there reasons for putting you into care, its no excuse but you should try to hear them out and then if it is not a liable excuse then think about cutting them out of your life but you should give them a second chance. they sound like they want to know you and depending on your age (if your still in care) maybe want you back home. if they are still togther (they sound lik they are) then you should def give them a chance because something must have happened for them to give you up as most people in care come from broken homes who just cant manage. you should thrd before making permenent decisions. good luck x
2007-06-03 03:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by loops1988izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say how old you are, it is a sad situation, i can understand how you feel, but do you know the truth of the situation? was it because you weren't wanted, or was there another reason, like they felt it impossible because of whatever situation they were in, to care for you properly, when you know the truth you will be able to make an informed decision on what is best for you, i wish you luck and happiness
2007-06-03 05:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand "they put me in to care" but I would give them a chance. Talk with them.
2007-06-03 03:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My parents put me into care14 yrs ago, I'm now 28 and I have nothing to do with them at all.
2007-06-03 05:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst cos u wont talk to ur parents u wanna go in care! i say go on then cos u will relaise how stupid u have been when ur foster parents as so strict u dont have a life! and i no this cos i no many ppl in care!
ur own enemy here is urself!
sorry but truth hurts!
2007-06-03 03:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Kylie M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did they put you in therre?. Thats' not right! I don;t blame you. But you should atleast talk to them once to see what they have to say and you should tell them excatly how you feel about what they did.
2007-06-03 03:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by tessi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you havent really given us a lot to go on but if they treated you really badly and you dont feel like you're ready to meet them, then tell them that they'll have to wait until you feel like you're ready to face them. However remember that one day you might regret not meeting them, so dont leave it too long. Unless they treated you really awfully or something. then you should surround yourself with people who care about you and try to rebuild your life.
Good Luck!
2007-06-03 03:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you mean they put u in like rehab or something??? you should do what you feel. if you want to talk then go ahead if you don't (and you think that you might in the future) hen tell them that...good luck
2007-06-03 03:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi
well if you don't want to talk to them tell them straight
" I DON'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU! "
But you should give them a chance they could have had a good reason to put you in care just give them a chance and good luck
!!!!!!
XXX
2007-06-03 03:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to understand why they made their decision. I'm sure it wasn't because they don't love you. You can't do it alone sweety. Be grateful that they want to be there. And love you.
2007-06-03 03:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋