this girl.. she had feelings for me so do i.. and we were about to be really gf bf.. after her exams.. but yesterday, i saw her sitting on a guy's lap.. i cant take it! i feel like braking down! but i controlled myself.. she saw me looking at here.. she knows.. and i thik she did this for the sake of making me jealous.. coz she tot the girl beside me was my gf.. but actually tat was my cousin..
when i asked her the next day.. she acted funny.. and jus laugh around not serious.. but i am serious when i ask her.. she answered to me tat it was very normal to her.. (is she too open minded, i mean, she shudnt do it in front of me) .. she said tat guy was her fren (she describe that guy as - not a normal fren, nor a good fren jus fren).. from the way she said it.. i tot tat guy was special to her! then she said no.. but why all this? i dun understand her.. wat ya think? is she cheap? hell i am so sad! wat shud i do? ( to her it's normal but i cant accept it ) so.. wat shud i do??
2007-06-03 03:17:29 · 21 answers · asked by WM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not normal shes just playing you hopefully next time she does that the guy will shove her off his lap and into the floor
im sorry but that was exactly what you needed to see with girls like that im sorry i know it hurt
2007-06-03 03:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is like that and told you she is, well the decision is up to you now. Can you handle that? You said no, well I guess you will moving on then. You learned something about her that day, if you don't like it then move on and find someone more to your liking. You mentioned she saw you sitting by another girl and you said it was your cousin, Does your gf know that or was she acting out on what she saw? I would find out these things before moving on, just to be sure what went wrong. Good luck.
2007-06-03 10:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls sit on guys laps and don't mean anything sexual about it. I am married and still sit on other peoples laps regardless of sex. As long as there was no inappropriate touching going on I think you are over reacting. Maybe it's just your mind thinking she's acting weird since you think it's wrong for her to do what she did. I see nothing wrong with it as long as she's not touching the guy in a wrong way. Plus, ya'll aren't even dating yet! So why are you getting upset. IT would be one thing if you were dating, then maybe I could understand some of your concern but ya'll aren't.
2007-06-03 10:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right off the bat...
You said yourself that you two weren't ACTUALLY committed to each other just yet.
You can't hold that against her.
Now, if you two decide to be "BF" and "GF" and all that, then, I would be hesitant to have my "GF" wandering off and sitting on other guys laps. I'd find another GF!!
Whatever you do, don't take that moment in life too seriously.
If you two ARE serious about each other, it will work itself out. If not, you weren't meant to be!
(Lots of fish in the sea and all that.)
Good luck!
2007-06-03 10:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by tabulator32 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your point of view, but remember u guys weren't officially going out. I consider it normal to sit on a friends lap IF I don't have a boyfriend or am planning to go out with someone..but i think you should just forget about it
2007-06-03 10:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chill pill dude...she just sat on the lap...didnt kiss or fondle him rite....
may be she wanted to make u jealous...
or may be that fren of her is very good fren....
dont keep on askin her the same things....
stay put for 2 days and she will be back to u....
show that u do hav feelings for her but she cannot play with them by teasing u...
all da best bud!
2007-06-03 10:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Maverickk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people are all different, and what seems right to one may seem wrong to other.
She is what she is. You do not think or feel like she does. That is enough to foresee that this relationship will make you, or her, or both , suffer. Do you really think it is a good idea to get steady with her?
If you do, bear in mind that it will be very difficult. And do not complain later. She is not concealing what she thinks.
2007-06-03 10:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude - take a chill pill ...she just sat on the lap... didnt kiss or play games right .... may be she wanted to make u jealous.. why dont you reverse it with her in fornt of this guys :) Rock it dude !!
2007-06-03 10:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Subh P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to make you jealous before your even going together is ridiculous, so i would not worry about someone like her..She doesn't deserve a guy, let alone a friend..If she doesn't think any more of HERSELF than that then that should say it all...Sorry...Some people don't care about others' feelings; just their own..Find someone who deserves "YOU" and respects you and your values......
2007-06-03 10:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by mushpuppie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should spend a great deal more time studying English and practicing how to spell and write English sentences.
About the girl: SHE AIN'T THE ONE FOR YOU !!
Good Luck
2007-06-03 10:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋