2007-06-03 02:32:56 · 9 answers · asked by Eagle13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask....the worst answer is no...
2007-06-03 02:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advise is to just walk straight up to her while you's are on your own and tell her exactly how you feel. I had the same problem once but i was really shy and did'nt know how to talk to girls or women. So i just worked up the curriage one day and thought to myself, if i dont tell her now i will never tell her at all how i feel about her. It was the best thing i ever done. But in regards to how she will feels about you is another story. Take the chance. Her answer to how she feels about you is all up to you. If she does'nt feel the some way about you, then dont let it get you down. You tried and thats all you can do. But in saying that it is a hard thing to take if they dont feel the same way about you. You do get over it in time and dont let it worry you to much. You did the best you could by just letting her know and you should be proud of yourself. Besides that you might become alot closer as friends and you wont feel so bad. If you think it is to much to be friends because of the way you feel about her then my advise is to pull out and start a fresh with someone else. There is always someone out there for all of us. It is pretty lonely if you have no one to share your life with ( I Know ) So go for it, what have you got to lose. Hope this advise helps you.
2007-06-03 03:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st things first. You have to know what type of girl you like. What type of girl fits your personality?
Confidence is the key. Always be confident. Look more importantly to have a good time, not to impress a female. Women know when you're feigning confidence or unsure of yourself. Invite her out to "hang out" with you.
Go somewhere where you can interact. Bowling is good. The arcade or Dave & Buster's is also good. Movies are a horrible choice. Too expensive and not very interactive. Don't do dinner at a restaurant, she's not your GF yet, simply a hang out date. Women don't like men who trick their money out. Men like this come off as maniplative in a woman's eyes. Go to a self serve fast food place where you can get a hot dog or burger.
Act like you're hanging out with a buddy and don't put emphasis (in your mind) on jumping her bones even if you want to. Be funny and witty. Relax, enjoy her company and have a good time.
Hope this helps!
2007-06-03 02:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by BK Professional 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her! I'm a shy and I'm way too scared to show an interest in a guy I like. If he asked me to my face if I wanted to go out I would be flattered. It shows he's really brave and secure. Good luck!!
2007-06-03 02:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking to her, but very casual, talk about something that she likes, and then when the conersation is comming to a close say " do u wanna hang out some other time" so its causual and u guys can get to know eachother
2007-06-03 02:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Spring time ease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can engage in a short preliminary test of guessing her willingness. check for the facial expressions whilst talking to her in common. then proceed and offer a drink and proceed if you receive a slap in return, dont be worry, try again later.
2007-06-03 02:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make it casual.. nothing too huge it would make us uncomfortable
the worst that could happen is that the girl says "no"
2007-06-03 02:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Dancychikchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her, start chatting, if she engages in your convosation with full answers (not just...yeh...no..answers)..tell her you like her and ask her out!! good luck
2007-06-03 02:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't ask, you'll never know, and always wonder.
2007-06-03 02:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋