yea dont take me wrong... she is really fair n pretty n wanted a daughter like herself. unfortunately i wasn't born with a fair complexion(i'm of asian origin) n since my childhood she's been asking me y i'm so ugly (which by the way i don't think i m). she even shows more affection towards my fair skinned friends n it makes me jealous and sad... i want to be fair to please my mom can.... any one help me
2007-06-03 00:04:12 · 15 answers · asked by halcy : 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Look you don't have to please your mother because she is not acting like a mother. Who cares if your not fair skinned, she is should love you anyway. I sorry, but your mother has problems with herslef that she has to workout. Don't let her problems affect you as a person. I want you to do good in school and become something great that way they mother will see that she has a great child. Some people are not made to be parents and I am sorry your mother is one of them!!
2007-06-03 00:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Use this homemade face pack for one week you will find a difference. Make a face pack consisting of cucumber juice, lemon juice and some rose water. To remove tan make a paste using Haldi (Turmeric) with a little raw (unboiled) milk and lemon juice. Apply it on the skin; it will help in removing a tan. More home remedies available at http://www.wellnesstalk.org/fairskin.html
2007-06-04 06:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be quite honest if you are a White/Asian cross then your colouring should be the envy of all your friends.
If you really want to change colour and end up looking like Michael Jackson then that is your choice.
The safest option might be Spray Tan Companies.
Spray tan companies can make a Caucasian any depth of brown they want, you should make enquiries and see if they can spray you lighter .
It is worth asking as it is only a dye they use.
2007-06-03 07:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say wha? She isn't grateful to have a respectful daughter, with beautiful healthy skin, that actually cares about her? Wow, that is sad. You should confront your mother, and tell her to love you or be out your life. Her approval isn't need. What she lusts in people is their color...and she'll miss out on alot of great people...including yourself. Be a woman and make your presence known--after all you've earned it. Right?
Be pretty, and flaunt that gorgeous skin. Being pale is not necesarry, to be happy. Being light skin isnt as rosy as peopple make it, trust.
No one wants to be a tolerated as a pet rat, when their worth more than a price tag.
2007-06-03 07:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Born to be wild 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i know how you feel, my mum used to say i need a great tan ,i am fair ..Today i have a lovely daughter and Son and she don't want much to do with them but hey i love them and thats all that counts.My step sister get everything because i am a lot older then her and i really don't care about what my mum thinks i am happy and thats all that counts...I still talk to my mum..
2007-06-03 07:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by aussie_female1981 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like the others here have said: Your mother is the one with the problem, not you."
I wouldn't try to lighten my skin just to try to please someone who is miserable anyway. If you do that, she will most likely just find something else to criticize you for, anyway.
It would be better to try to stay positive and be the beautiful person you are right now. And when you are of legal age, get away from her and her insults.
2007-06-03 08:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surethng some girls with dark color consider themselves annoying. even me, i wanna be fair-skinned. i even worship and pray and wish and dream to get the color i want. but u know what, in ur case, for me it's different. if i were u, i will keep my skin. even if mom insults me, i'd be strong. even if i came from her, she has no rights tinsult me like i am the ugliest creature.
PLS EMBRACE ENOUGH COURAGE AND TELL HER SHE MUST ACCEPT WHO U ARE AND WHAT UVE BECOME.
girl, u are her daughter!
2007-06-03 07:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww girl I bet your pretty asian girls are sexy as hell Im very fair skinned sweetie but I think you are most likely just as beautiful even more so dont ever let anyone tell you otherwise!!
2007-06-03 07:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by ஐTInivelஐ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is messed up in the head. Be yourself and do what makes you happy.
Why do such horrible people reproduce if they can't raise a child properly?
2007-06-03 07:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your skin color does not make you who you are. If your mom thinks your ugly then thats her issue and you shouldn't change to fit her twisted thought of what pretty is.
2007-06-03 07:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Travis W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋