Looking for the best way to approach an attractive woman, without cheesy lines. Any good conversation starters?
2007-06-02 15:01:26 · 9 answers · asked by Joe D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk up confidently, like that's exactly where you're supposed to be. And then strike up a conversation. You can ask what she's drinking or make a comment about her appearance, but be specific. If she was amazing hair tell her, don't just tell her she's beautiful. If she's interested, conversation will follow easily.
2007-06-02 15:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly .. I hate chat up lines theres an odd occasion i find one ok but most of the time its pretty desperate blokes being really cheesy a big turn off. For my eye contact is the best catch her eye, if she holds it and smiles at all or has a cheeky grin your knocking the door lol, if she definatley saw you and looks away or turns her back chances are shes not interested. If you have the first sign smile at her or go over, offer her a drink, if she refuses because she has one for example laugh, be honest and tell her it was just an excuse to speak with her, women like honesty not particularly sleeziness. Make small chat, offer her a dance, if she genuinly looks interested and is giving out the right body signals shes interested and your in there :o)
2016-05-19 22:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is all I can think of. Walk up to her and say, "Hi, I hope you don't mind me saying this, but you really stand out from the crowd, and I was wondering if I could buy you and drink." As long as you say it with confidence it will sound nice and sincere.
It's honest and if she says no to the drink, it's not like she is saying no to you so much, and you saved a few bucks and can move on.
2007-06-02 15:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to say as you dont know what shes into. Id start with something about the place you are in or a compliment, or maybe offer to buy her drink, then she'll want to talk to you.
2007-06-02 15:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the "buy you a drink" line. unoriginal, and you'll just be like every other guy she has had to deal with. try this: ask the bartender what she is drinking, and when her drink is almost empty, have him send her another one from you. and when she gets it, then walk over to her and ask her to dance, and tell her if you are impressed with her dancing, you just mite buy her another drink. and be laid back, try not to be nervous. and just be yourself. dont tell her your some kind of genius or any kind of b.s. girls like guys that are genuine and honest.
2007-06-02 15:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Shane-O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you asked this question. I have problems to approach women, too. Found good tips here ;)
2007-06-05 05:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by El Papi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make eye contact, send a drink over to her, and then do nothing, let her come to you.
2007-06-02 15:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by Shari T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly want to get to know this woman, watch the other men make fools of themselves... and you IGNORE her. She just might approach you!
2007-06-02 15:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hello, my name is____________. Just be yourself, and add a nice compliment somewhere in your conversation about her.
2007-06-02 15:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by california girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋