I REALY NEED TO KNOW does real love just go away ?

Question

iight im 15 i was dating this girl for about 6 months and she siad things like "i realy love you " or i love you and i miss you, HOW I WAS NUMBER 1
we been threw alot together good and bad and sometime apart she comes with the conclusion that she dont love me no more and her feelings are very low for me now and its been only like a week and a couple of days

i dont understand if you love some one that much does it really just up poof!! AND VANISH
it makes me wonder if she realy even love me at all ??
or is she just lying about her feelings ??

so if someone could let me no wats going on i need some not too grown but wise advice

Answer 1

To be blunt, because it sounds like you need it... I don't think it was true love with her in the first place.

Answer 2

love is a tricky matter, it can be as solid and real as a brick wall or as unpredictable as the weather. And while this girl probably loved you once, she doesnt now, sometimes it happens but for good reason, she wasnt the one for you. And while you could keep pondering on it the best thing to do is just move on and find the person who is the one for you. And with your youth you have alot of time to find that person so dont wallow in the past too much

Answer 3

in case you have been dating basically 3 months and characteristic completed very very nearly each little thing, do no longer DO the rest. Date others and not him completely. He ought to make the subsequent pass or tutor you he's attracted to taking your dating to the subsequent point of committment. If he does no longer act quickly, provide him extremely some area. If a guy needs you, he won't assist you get away.

Answer 4

Welcome to my world, man. My past two relationships were both ended by her, after she basically told me flat out: I don't love you anymore. It was awful...No, i don't think that love can come and go so easily. I think that LUST can come and go very easily and LOVE can ONLY come and go if the person doesn't know what it is.

I think that your ex was either 1) Lying to you about loving you or 2) Maybe thought she loved you, but is actually using the word too loosely.

Personally, i think my older gf's feeling were just fading due to a very complicated web of confusion about her friends, me, etc. My latest ex just has no clue what love is. She thought she loved me, but she didn't even know what it meant to love.

All you can do, man, is to evaluate who you go out with. Next time, if she tells you something that doesn't sound right...it isn't. People don't joke when they talk about relationships. So if it sounds...off, it is and you should take it seriously.

I hope this offered some insight. Good luck with all the future relationships, man. ♫

Answer 5

What she said about loving you had to be a lie. Love does not come and go like that. When you love someone, truly love someone, its not that easy to break up and just go on your merry way. i don't think she really loved you at all. you would be better off to find someone else and let her memory go. you sound like a very nice person who won't have any trouble finding true love, but next time, be sure the person really loves you.

Answer 6

ok, i know completely where your coming form, but from a differnet angle. im a girl, im 15. my bf had just dumped me 3 weeks ago. we had been thru so much, he seemed like he really loved me, and i loved him way before he asked me out. so after he dumped me, he told me the reason was cuz i was to much of a drama queen, and that he lied when he told me that he loved me. every time. he said he had no choice because he didn't want to hurt me more. and im not sure how you can not love and be so act so loving and hug and kiss and stuff ya know? so i don't know that excat answer, i wish i did, but i know what ur going thru, i just hope i could help cuz i know the pain. i thought he relly loved me, and he never did. and now, just today, he got a nother girlfriend, and has totally erased me from his mind, im sure. but i think that love just slowly fades away at times. i have watched my ex-bf now on his myspace and stuff, and he seems like he never cared, he has forgoten me forever. if i never worked out between you and her, it must not have meant to be. i knwo it is hard, but maybe you should let go. i finally have. take your time though!!!! its not easy, you should go slow. i understand!!! :D i really hope i helped you...im really sorry, i know how it is. trust me, if only i could explain it all for you, you wud know.

Answer 7

Dude, at you age you can't even begin to understand just what love is, at least until you are about 23 years old, it is all lust.

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Answer 8

I don't know if I should really be giving advice since I'm pretty young. But a factor of "real" love, in my opinion, is when you both find a way to "rekindle" that love over and over again. It is like that old saying, love is a circle.

Answer 9

she wuz stupid i dont understand how she is over u already but she wuz just thought she luved u i told somone i luved them to and i didnt i had just thought i did cuz love dont stop love goes on for ever n ever n ever this gurl must be just telling u she is over u she probabley wants to cut off all feelings cuz some gurl dont wanna fall in love becuz they r afraid of pain or maybe she met someone new

Answer 10

I'm 18 and I just wanna say that... I don't think she lied about her feelings, but she was "lovestruck" and it wasn't a real love, she just thought it was... I'm sorry to say but people like that are people who don't understand love yet... Especially when you are young. You'll understand when you are older... It just sucks that it's a girl who does that, because usually girls are more mature than boys.

Answer 11

no if you really love someone, it doen't go away in a couple of weeks, it takes time.
so like you said, she could be hiding her feelings right now, or maybe she just thought she loved you when really it was just that she really LIKED you