i am going out with this boy and this is the third time. first we dated and my best friend told him a bunch of lies then kissed him(in front of me!) then she did it again but then i saw he kissed her back. Now he asked me back out and i said yes and warned him last chance. I am scared he is going to cheat on me again and i really like him what should i do!
2007-06-02 13:55:57 · 13 answers · asked by ~~MeLiSsA~~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well 4 me its once a cheat always 1. Keep a close i on him and dnt b friends with the other *****
2007-06-02 13:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Doing Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get the self confidence to just leave him alone. Don't you know that you are special, and you deserve nothing but the best. Say that to yourself the next time you look in the mirror. This guy knows that he can do what ever he wants to you, and knows that you will take him back. let him go now before he breaks your heart. Find someone that will treat you like the Queen that you are.
2007-06-02 14:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if you've only dated 3 times, you don't have a serious relationship yet, and you can't really expect him to be exclusive (unless he said he would). I would approach your friend and ask her to knock it off because it's hurting you to see her kiss your boyfriend. If she doesn't, well that's not much of a best friend. And if this guy wants to play the field, and you don't, you need to find a more stable guy. Good luck.
2007-06-02 14:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Artemis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may not be what you want you want to hear, but don't go out with him. Put your foot down. Tell him you can't deal with cheaters. Give him the cold shoulder for a little while and make him want you and prove to you that he is serious about you. Make him jeolous by dating other guys in the process. Make him earn your trust and the right to be with you.
2007-06-02 14:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if it's the third time around, and he has cheated with your bff, dump the bastard! Seriously! Maybe rid yourself of your best friend to!
You never know!
2007-06-02 14:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by alec.singer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you like a guy who's clearly a smarmy player? Get some self respect and kick this guy to the curb.
2007-06-02 14:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl, i've liked so many guys over the years & each one was better than the last...i even loved a few...so whoop whoop u like him...u gotta like u...& liking u means u demand respect...anyone that feels they can kiss your "friend" in your face does NOT respect u...YES!! he is going to cheat...because he feels i can do whatever i want.--"she likes me" & besides i got away with it before...like u more than u ever like any guy...like u enough to not be mistreated; taken for granted; or disrespected...
2007-06-02 14:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by (\/)§.Tè®í U§ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. It's very simple. Drop him and drop the friend. Sounds lame, but no real friend is going to make out with your boyfriend or whatever.... eff them both!
2007-06-02 14:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you ditched the so called best friend and I wouldn't have given him another chance. There is the saying "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
2007-06-02 14:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you gave him a second chance, give him alittle hope and trust, but not enough trust to get your feelings hurt.
2007-06-02 13:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋