Are there nice guys who aren't shy? How am I suppose to have a nice and caring boyfriend when all of them aren't brave enough to approach me? I can't approach them, cause 1... I'm a FEMALE, and 2... I don't know if they are taken, and 3... that just seems cheap and desperate and they might step over me... So what? Aren't there nice guys who aren't shy? Nice as in nice, caring, loyal and not like those bad boys.
2007-06-02 13:47:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not ALL nice guys are shy but a good majority of them are (myself included).
You can't approach them because
(1) You're female (what does THAT mean? Are you too good or it isn't your place? Both are bull!)
(2 and 3) Welcome to what men have to go thru everyday. We don't know if YOU are taken either. Alot of times, we come across as desperate to women.
I treat a woman right but, since I do not have alot of dating experience, I get discounted as boring or not interesting!
You want a nice guy? Go out and get one!
2007-06-02 13:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for myself, but I am a nice guy and I am not shy about going up to women and flirt with them. They are out there, but you need to be approachable in the way you carry yourself. You might want to approach a guy you are interested in. Don't let the fact you are female keep you from flirting with them. You don't have to ask one out, but put yourself out there.
If you want a "nice guy" prosective, I always ask why do all women look down on us as though we are weak and less of a man because we aren't jerks. LOL
2007-06-02 13:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah there is, you just haven't found him yet! But don't worry, you'll have PLENTY of boyfriends!
PS: and usually, when guys are shy, they like you, and if they tell you really nice things like give you complements, or even talk to you a lot, they like you.
2007-06-02 13:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be extra assertive. adult adult males that are effective are commonly putting up a front and ladies individuals comprehend this. don't be recommend, do exactly no longer compromise your needs. while you're continuously attempting to delight, then you certainly'll come off as very uninteresting.
2016-11-03 11:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just approach them. I am a nice/shy guy, and girls approach me...
2007-06-02 13:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to act shy to get girls it works like a charm it is playa rule number 12.
2007-06-02 13:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by fin73 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES there are!!
Go to this college: http://hylesanderson.com/
But you can't pass unless you're Christian. But they're less likely to cheat on you, divorce, etc. ;)
2007-06-02 13:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070602155121AAkQjf2 .....we dont have the guts to ask any1 out cuz of the reasons stated in my question
2007-06-02 13:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the loud ones are the douches.
2016-04-01 00:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by eric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋