2007-06-02 11:59:17 · 15 answers · asked by Haiku 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Heavens, yes.
Sit him down and explain the facts, viz: that he sucks as offspring. You're embarrassed by him, and feel you and your wife have a shot at happiness by directing your attentions towards a new, hopefully improved, issue.
It'll probably save a lot of annoyance on your part and heartache on his in the future if you also use the opportunity to express your low expectations for any children _he_ might sire. Make it clear that you have no plans to act as grandparent to any of his children.
If he is sixteen years of age or older, it's the time to show him the door and forget the whole mess. There's no reason to keep him around to remind everybody of what a depressing failure he was for you and your wife.
On the off chance he has the audacity to criticize you or your wife, make sure to assign blame. "I'd never even seen heroin until after YOU came along," etc. If the missus is less than shapely, blame him for what he did to her body.
2007-06-02 23:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 11:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't tell your son straight out. Maybe you can do what Hank's dad did on the cartoon "King of the Hill". Cotton (Hank's dad) had another son while he was well into his older years. Anyway, he named the new child Hank also and gave the child the nickname "Good Hank". You should do something like this.
Then when your sons get older you can make comments along the lines of (to younger, non-dud son) "You're like the son I never had to begin with, but then ended up having anyway".
Good luck this time around!
2007-06-02 12:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by gh0st 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You're kidding, right? Perceptions have a tendency to become reality. Don't treat him like a dud and maybe things will get better!
2007-06-02 12:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by tyghor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a total dud as a parent. Shame on you.
2007-06-02 12:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who says you're the father? A REAL MAN would never even make a comment like that about his son.
2007-06-02 13:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by gussie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How could anyone tell thier child something like that? To tell him something like that would scar him for life and he would more than likely be jealous of the baby and not like it. I can not believe that you would even think of doing something like this to a child. If you feel this about your child.and could even think of telling him or her that....I think you should think twice about having another one. Sorry but you are the one that wrote the question and this is my opinion.
2007-06-02 12:10:18 · answer #7 · answered by susie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not even sure how to respond except by saying perhaps you shouldn't have had a kid in the first place. I mean really, who says that to their own kid, or any kid for that matter. It is people like you that are wrong in this world!!!!!
2007-06-02 12:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by partygal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why the heck would you say that to a innocent child?
2007-06-02 12:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by lexi l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if your as much of a moron that this question makes you appear to be!
2007-06-02 12:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by llllll_amanda_lllllll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋