we are in HS. i like her... and she wants to have relationship with me(her friends said she like me and care about me).... we really have fun when we go out..but lately we are meeting so little...like 4 times in 1 month adn a bit...yet she's free this week... and said she'll tell me which day she wants to go out...but she didnt. also, she questions me little and just give me quiet time when i'm down(i donno if she wants to give me time myself or just don care)... then, when i said "do u want a hug"(when she's cold or scared or sth, she said no.... even tho we did hug sometimes...but when i ask, she says no mostly...
so what the heck..i cant figure out if she likes me like she and her friends said...whats your opinion? what should i do
2007-06-02 11:25:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best answer i can give u is ask her about it. only she can really tell you how she feels about your relationsship. it probably isnt you thats making her feel she doesnt want to commit, its probably the fact that she just wants to have some space. And maybe she wants you to respect that. Just ask her if all she wants is some space or if it is really not working between you two. Remember everyone has its funny moments and like to have some space at times so i wouldnt worry to much.
2007-06-02 11:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by dutchychik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl so I know this best. That girl is soooo playing you. She WANTS you to fall in love with her, and then she will break your heart. Right now, she's teasing you, but look past her "looks" and look for the REAL her. If she won't even except a freaking hug, what a mean girl. She should just except it AT LEAST as a friend. What a bch.
2007-06-02 11:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jaime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl better looking than her to be friends with, and she will become jealous and work to keep you. Right now she nows you will do anything she says, you have to get yourself back in control of the relationship. If that doesn't work, sleep with her friends, she will hate you but you will have fun, and she will learn her lesson for the next guy.
2007-06-02 11:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the undertaking is you're insecure with your self...and perchance you doubt her emotions for you. yet you are able to desire to construct up your person self esteem so as which you're feeling extra powerful approximately your self and approximately her emotions in direction of you. a solid self esteem will additionally make you directly extra captivating to her. attempt taking extra powerful care of your actual visual allure (do your hair, very own hygiene, dress up) whether you at the instant are not leaving the living house. do issues you like and are solid at. make your self sense like "the guy" and you'd be "the guy" to her.
2016-10-06 12:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by zeitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is blowing you off. It sounds like she is not that interested. I'm sorry guy...I know that must hurt. But if a girl liked you, she would not make you feel so bad...she would be sensitive to your feelings and to your needs and would try to make you feel happy, not sad....sorry buddy
2007-06-02 11:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she has a nother guy and is stuck between the both of you 2 guys..
and you should ask her whats going on... and if she says nothing than ask her out....
good luck to you..
2007-06-02 11:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by jamie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just ask her about it. her friends will be protecting her and are not always going to be straight with you. just ask her if she wants to hang out with you or go to dinner, keep it casual and see where it takes you!
2007-06-02 11:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing she doesnt like u. otherwise she would not mind getting a hug from u.
2007-06-02 11:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and just talk to her, tell her that u have feelings for her still, and what about her that if she does for u, just sit down with her k?
2007-06-02 11:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously something's bothering her...so the key is communication. no matter how awkward it may be, sit her down and demand that she tells you what's up.
2007-06-02 11:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lenore P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋