My friend told me her boyfriend only lasts 4-5 or less minutes when there having sex. When he cums he's done. After that he's always talkin about how girls dont care how he performs in bed as long as he look good he's cute and sexy and everything they'll do it with him just because of that.
So ladies tell me which one good sex or good looks ?
And guys tell me do you want a girl with good looks or good sex ?
2007-06-02 11:22:39 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good sex is way more important than good looks.
if you're turned on by someone, you're gonna wanna act on that impulse, but you'll just wind up being disappointed. i'd rather have someone who knows how to work it rather than someone who's hot.
2007-06-02 11:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by sexii_sanchez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question!
Okay if you are into a relationship you shouldn't look at either of these. Character is the most important (seriously). You won't be having sex 95% of the time. The person needs to make you happy with clothes on and should be fun to be around.
If you are into the relationship for the attraction, this is different.
Good sex is important. If she knows what to do in the bed it's great. If she is not good but willing to do something different, this is good (be open to new things).
Good sex can only get better, she won't have good looks forever.
About this guy, only 5 minutes? Girls do care how we perform. She needs to say that she doesn't enjoy it, and she needs to not do it until he can build up his stamina. He also needs to learn to have multiple orgasmisms. Only one?
Better sex with a girl is just more important for me.
2007-06-02 11:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by rthornton001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this is a guy answering. There is sex, and intimacy. By what you're writing the girls a shallow about about their intimacy, it's sounds like to just interested in having a hot guy by there side. Add it sounds like he's just as bad when he gets his, he is done. There's a lot more to sex, forplay and after play and more that can make the enjoyable experience last for hours. These are things learned with experience, and experiment. If the relationship itself is going to be based on the sex act alone, it's not something just for fun. If you not serious about the person , you can be doing it with them. Period. You both have a lot to risk for being promiscuous.
2007-06-02 11:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by hugswin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately good sex.
I'd much rather have 3 or 4 hours of love-making with a average looking girl than 3 or 4 minutes with Liz Hurley!
In fact if I was having sex with someone as hot as Liz Hurley (Think Austin Powers 1) I'd probably only last 3-4 minutes!
2007-06-02 11:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Being attracted to the person you're having sex with is a good start, however, when it comes to performance over asthetics, I'll take a woman who can rock my world any day of the week and twice on Sunday over a girl who looks pretty. Sex is important....but nothing beats GOOD SEX.
2007-06-02 11:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by utahbizboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a women, I think yeah sex would be b4 looks.I never thought that I'd fall in love with (the not so good looking man, but each and everyday he was better looking because I loved him! I loved his body even though he was chubby but I loved him! And when you have love that's what matters and the sex is great! Great sex can be achieved if WE want it too. Yeah, men sometimes suck at foreplay ,, but what are WE doing about that? WE control ourselves and our bodies and our minds. It's up to US to take control! And they'll THANK US for it.
2007-06-10 07:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by n p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, we want both. I have had great sex with an ugly chic but didn't want to be seen in public......and I have had beautiful women that were like sleeping with plywood. A combination of the two is preferred. I was lucky, my wife is hot and great in the sack. I think emotion plays a big part as well. If you are into the person physically and emotionally, it makes the sex that much better........took me many years to learn that.
2007-06-02 11:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good would having a beautiful or handsome face if it doesn't satisfy you? I believe having a good and satisfying sex is better. It has its advantages. You'll be in a very good and relaxing mood to start your day; boost your stamina for whatever lies ahead. You'll be purring your way to work and accomplishing the tasks you have set out to do with nary a complaint but one that has just been newly energized. Meow!
2007-06-02 11:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by annabelle p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good sex, and honestly the hotter a guy is usually the faster he is because he doesn't think he has to work at it. Guys who are cute and ok looking can usually last a lot longer because they try more to pleas women....... this is just my experiences.
2007-06-02 11:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good sex. Why be unhappy with a stud? Before breaking it off, maybe she should talk to him and work on it. Cause i know guys can control when they are ready to ***. If he cant control it, he sould focus on more fourplay for her to *** first. He is greedy and selfish if he doesnt care.
2007-06-10 11:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋