2007-06-02 10:51:29 · 45 answers · asked by everyladyisbeautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You`ll be desperate for a lot more than that if your wife finds out and gives you the boot.
2007-06-02 10:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by *~STEVIE~* *~B~* 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your married? but you love another woman
I think the best thing you can do is find out if the other woman likes you back.
If so she likes you the same way then you might have a
opportunitie to chance your relationship.
You and your wife should talk about your relationship
Its not healthy loving another woman when your married.
This can result in divorce but if you really love her
Then you should go after her and take a chance
2007-06-02 11:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you should know the answer. She's married and you're married. You're in love with her but is she in love with you ? She's your friends wife and you're married , why you marry your wife? You don't love her anymore ? You're married and she's married and if she likes you , you shouldn't go after her its not right to break 2 marriage like that. You need to get over her but its going to take time.
2007-06-02 10:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is easy to said a person get over of it... becasue we no are in the situation that.. this person is.. but the common sense say that .... don't bother... stay away ... until you can control this... don't visit them... don't pass time with them.. cut your friendship with them... or you may do something stupid....
Q. she love you? if not why bother.. keep this love for you self... if she not love you, if you tell me you and her have the same feeling... I said divorce you wife and marry her.. but you no win nothing to tell her.. or to do something about... it... but I feel bad for you wife... I think she think that you love her... not the wife or you friend... My suggest is try to get over of this... if the wife of your friend don't love you... or divorce you wife.. how you can live liying your wife...
good luck man....
2007-06-02 11:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by jorge c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I must say, 'Shame on you!' It is one thing to harbor a fantasy, it is something all together different to 'covet' your friend's spouse and in doing so betray your wife and the trust you entered into with her when you married and averred a lifelong bond of trust. Wise up and don't be a cad...toward your wife, your "friend", and ultimately to yourself. Blessings....
2007-06-02 11:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by Stevie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think about it! There are obviously issues in your own relationship that need addressed. You need to take care of what is at home before you can even think about another relationship. You are probably seeing the "greener" grass on the other side. FYI -- that grass will need to be mowed as well! As far as the friend's wife goes, you need to distance yourself from that relationship as well. Nothing good will come of this!
2007-06-02 10:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by natoodie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the first place how do live with yourself , you need help to try and understand what you are doing to everyone around you is worth all the pain and does she feel the same way about you and the other people do they know about this. I know it hard really you need to stop and look at the big picture at the end who is going to be hurt in all of this.
2007-06-02 10:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Donna L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your screenname says it all. Your not in love your in lust. She is unobtainable so therefore you have decided your desparately 'inlove' ,once you have had her you will toss her like yesterdays newspaper. So call it what it is and stop acting like your 12 year old. Get mature, responsible and remember that you have vowed to love only one get over this playboy/james bond mentality.. if you can't get your act together your going to end up a lonely bitter old man!
2007-06-02 11:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you desperate for both, or one? does she feel the same about you? can you take your friends wife of him? are you bothered about hurting your wife? does every body's sadness equate to your happiness? once you have satisfied your self of all these answers, stay put,
2007-06-02 11:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by capa-de-monty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have quite a delimma. The ethical and moral thing to do is leave. If she feels the same she will leave too. Obviously if you were both happy with your mates you wouldn't be in this position. As things appear to stand now...it's not fair to anyone...especially your spouses.
2007-06-02 11:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by sassyredhead1968 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋