2007-06-02 09:21:13 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Zachary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are in a relationship where you think that ur bf is cheating, ask him straight up. If he confesses, then you choose what you want to do with him (break up or not). However, if he answers he is not, take his word for it, but keep an eye out for any signs that you think may be cheating. If you're bf has a history of cheating, or is known as a "player" then keep your eyes peeled for those signs as well. Don't snoop around his stuff or pretend to be a spy (as fun as it is!), just ask him first, then take it from there
2007-06-02 09:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by angela 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are certain signs that you can pick up on when they cheat.
attitude changes and he picks fights with you for no reason and then leaves. Wants less sex, or more sex. Suddenly wants to try new things that are sexual. Won't put his cell phone down, takes calls when you are not in the room or leaves the room. Hides what he is doing online. Sometimes things are left in the car from them. Buys you gifts for no reason. Is suddenly in too much of a good mood. Leaves things in his pockets, reciepts, notes, ect... And go with your gut feeling.
if you feel he is cheating set up a trap to catch him. Follow him too see if he is going where he says he is. Put a long tape recorder under his car seat. If you live together pretend to go out to visit your family for the night but hide somewhere close by and there is a good chance he may bring her back to your house. I hope this helps/
2007-06-02 09:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know is to catch him in the act. Don't listen to crap that people may say about him. Unless you see it for yourself, you won't know the truth. So if you think he is cheating, follow him.
2007-06-02 09:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by harold 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Private detective or some sort of keystroke recorder which records whatever he writes and you can get his passwords and look in his emails and stuff
2007-06-02 09:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Spaceman Spiff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are signs...
they take a call out of the room. private
they don't wan't you to meet there friends.
they don't take pictures of you two(or three) together. and things like that
2007-06-02 09:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by XxyouwishyouhadmexX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him. if they care anything about you they wont lie and you'll be able to tell if they're lying. but if there he says he isn't and you still dont believe him then there is no trust in that relationship and thats what relationships are built on. you should probably evaluate your relationship and see what is really going on.
2007-06-02 09:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by freakyfluter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is depend how old is him... anyway... how old are you... why you no trust in your boyfriend? anyway.. if you have that kind of feeling is because something is bother you... and why you want to be his girlfriend if you no trust yo him... imagine if you marry this guy... I think one way is to follow him... or make one of you friend.. try to firt with him.. if he respond to her.. you in big problem....
good luck
2007-06-02 09:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by jorge c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If you don't believe him, it's not a good sign.
2007-06-02 09:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by atheame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carefully look on how he treat u and how he talks to u
2007-06-02 09:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow him around.
2007-06-02 09:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋