i'm going through a tough time right now, which is really testing my faith. i'm a convert of almost 5 yrs now. have not had an "islamic" environment (which is beautiful, i've experienced it at other's homes etc) i just feel kinda lost.
i know i am muslim at heart....
i believe everything Islam teaches...
but i am going through a divorce right now, and i find myself
wanting to go away from islam (astagfirAllah)
(i was not Muslim before marriage, and didn't learn about islam until after marriage, so have not really learned a whole lot, not had a good teacher for a husband)
how do i get back to where i'm supposed to be??
should i "start over"? and if so, where should i even begin??
2007-06-02 09:09:39 · 10 answers · asked by this_sucks2007 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
As-Salaamu Alaikum, dear sister!
I'm so sorry that you're going through a divorce. I cannot imagine what you're feeling right now. However, please know that Almighty God Allah is always near. The Holy Qur'an states He is "nearer to you than your jugular vein."
I highly recommend that you stay in constant prayer and reimmerse yourself in your Islamic Studies. Almighty God Allah loves you and always wants what is best for you. He is The Most Understanding, The Most Beneficent, The Most Merciful! Truly Awesome!
May Allah bless you to remain strong in faith and on The Straight Path!
2007-06-02 12:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Shafeeqah 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Do you have the possibility of moving? I'm being serious. If you don't have children and you're divorcing, perhaps moving to a different community where there is more of an Islamic presence (even an area that has a big Muslim community, I mean) could help. If your faith is important to you - and it seems that way - then losing religion isn't going to make you feel any better. I would ask around - even on YA! - to find a place that suits you a bit better. If you're feeling like truly starting over, you could even consider moving abroad for a year - teach English or something in a Muslim nation to experience something different, meet new people, and strengthen your faith.
2007-06-03 08:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by nomadic 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know,when your world starts to fall you tend to hang on to the "littlest' things which can bring comfort to u.You got/getting hurt by the very man you once thought of as your world..its not very easy not to lose your focus..as in your faith which right now is probably the only thing and very surely can bring u alot of comfort n strength..as a woman islam gives u the strength that no man on earth can take away from you..you got sooo many rights thats once you get to know your real worth in islam u will be just be a strong individual but also someone who can help others in a similar situation..i am not sure what u mean by when u say start over..did u know that only that husband is considered tobe a good husband in the eyes of Allah whose wife considers him good...i very recently found that out considering i hv been a muslim all my life..sweety u just need to find your strength..n that trust me islam is the best source in every way..u just need to understand islam a lil bit more..to know that u r priceless and Allah loves u alot.He forgives n loves inconditionally.
2007-06-03 07:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by reasonz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Salam Alaykum.
Whatever you do, don't give up. Allah swt has blessed you and guided you to the right path, praise be to Him.
Talk to some other Muslim women and talk about your situation. Make sure you try to do good deeds to please Allah swt, and make sure you never forget to pray. Pray that Allah swt renews your faith. Like many people said on here, Allah swt is always near and always hears your prayers. Research Islam and read the Quran. The more you find out about your religion, the more faith you have in your heart inshaAllah. Also, there are some really miraculous stories that have to do with Islam that inspire me and bring me closer to Allah swt. Here's where you can find some of those beautiful miracles. http://islamcan.com/
I pray that Allah swt guides you on the right path, and I pray that you, me, and all Muslims can please Allah and be true Muslims until death. Allah swt knows best.
Email me if you'd like more websites or if you have any questions; I'm happy to help.
2007-06-02 20:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by ♥IslamForever♥ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry sister for what you're going through in your life. I've been there but that was the time when I converted to Islam and prayed for strength and Allah gave me so much strength. I have overcome an abusive marriage of many years and left with my 2 daughters and nothing much of material things. I can honestly tell you that Allah has blessed me beyond words and we have never been in need of anything.
try to go to a Mosque and talk to some sisters, I'm sure they will be strong for you.
I will keep you in my prayers and say a Dua' for you that Allah will guide you and give you strength in this time.
if you need a shoulder to cry on, just msg me..... as I've said, I have been down that awful road.
stay strong
Allah be with you dear sister in Islam
2007-06-02 19:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Chery 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be best to start over..... Ask the women at the local Islamic center to help you...... Pray to God, I am sorry for all the hardship your going through and sorry about the divorce but if your husband was not nice then I guess its a good thing so good luck in your new life... Also reading Quran might help... I'll keep you in my prayers sister..
2007-06-02 19:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Please stay strong in your faith, keep praying and read he Qur'an. Is there an Islamic center near you, where you can speak to an Imam? Are there other Muslims where you live? Please find someone to talk to. InshaAllah you will find the strength to continue to stay strong in your faith.
2007-06-02 19:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
i'm a christian, but i'm not going to spend paragraphs telling you about Christ and how to "truly" be saved. just spend some time alone with God, Allah - what you call Him is your choice - and i think He will show you the way.
2007-06-02 18:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by J-me 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Prayer!!!
Ask GOD to help you find the truth.
http://www.amazingfacts.org/
GOD bless
2007-06-02 16:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by Exodus 20:1-17 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Call the missionaries for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Continue to listen to that still small voice in your heart, as it's showing you the way. I'm so excited for you!
2007-06-02 16:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 16⤋