My Ex has been talking about how she wants to get back with me in the future. It's long distance but now I can see her a lot more. I read her email and found out that she has personal ads online and I also pretended to be someone else online and she told them (me) that she just broke up with someone. So she has been going back and forth with someone else and trying to meet someone online.
How do I tell her I know this? I can't say I read her email. I thought of putting an ad online and leaving a message for her. She gets the updated every few for who her matches would be. But her ads a not specific enough that i can point to them and say it's her. I just know they are from her emails.
I don't want to get back together with her now. I just want her to know the reason.
2007-06-02 06:34:06 · 10 answers · asked by rob b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, she emphasized how I was the only one she was talking to about being with. She acts as if I am crazy to think that she could be going out with someone else. She says,"I love you." but in the email to me (she doesn't know it is me" she says how she just broke up with someone, a day ago, but she really love them. So I don't regret reading her email because I could have been fooled by her and wasted a lot of time.
2007-06-02 06:57:31 · update #1
if you dont want to get back together then tell her the truth personally. Dont make her wait or give any expectations coz if you do, it will hurt her in the end. We really dunno what will happen in the future.
2007-06-02 06:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by cAyOte_uGLy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 12:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I'm in the same position as you. My ex-fiance is doing the same thing. She says she wants to be with me and that she loves me. She was logged into her e-mail on my laptop and i looked at some of her e-mail she signed up for match.com e harmony and all these dating website. I asked her about them and she said that its a mistake and she didn't even finish signing up for them... but then i looked again like a week later and guess what found that she was still getting these e-mails and that some of them had matches for her... If she didn't finish it then they wouldn't be sending matches.. I confronted her on this and she finally was honest about it... I say just Tell her the truth.
2007-06-02 06:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by DRaymo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you state she's your ex then technically when she said she'd just split up with someone she wasnt lying.
Why don't you get some more personal information from her by emailing her then say a friend of yours recognised her name/details etc and told you about it.
2007-06-02 06:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's one who thinks she has to have at least one man on the string at all times, so she's keeping her options open. If she really wanted to work things out with you, she'd be focused on your relationship instead of trying to get something going with other guys. I think you've got more reasons than this to move on with your life and let her play her games with these other guys.
2007-06-02 06:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by classic1957gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you do not want to get back with her then be honest with the women and tell her that you know about her ads and what she has said and that you do want her back if that is what she is saying an doing.........................................
Because if you just make an ad to see if it is her then you are no better then what she is doing, Be honest with her and move on.
2007-06-02 06:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her you have been reading her emails. ask her how seroius she is about getting back with you and if she is the least bit interested in meeting new people. she could be waiting to get back with u, and then cut the ads. test her.
2007-06-02 06:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Kisha B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make up a ad and contact her. When she talks about breaking up with you. Tell her something about the guy she just broke up with(you). Something you two just know. That will freak her out. It will also let her know you know.
2007-06-02 06:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fess up to what a jerk you are. Reading her emails was wrong.
2007-06-02 06:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest with her. it's the only way.
2007-06-02 06:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋