can please someone help. How do i stop my mom from trying to run my life. i am 17 years old and in high school. She confronted me the morning about my "wild behavior" and that i with my boyfriend terry to much but we been together for 3 years. She told me i am not allow to see him for awhile not i am not going to listen to her because I love him. My b/f mom also gave him a talk to about his joyriding and lots of speeding tickets and about us having sex. We did have sex 4 times and did recently did it in his room we did not use a condom except for 1 time.
We got in a huge fight about all the stuff me and my b/f is doing, she called me a sl*t but she said she didnt mean it. she said if u want to dress like a sl*t then go ahead but you are not allow to see my b/f but who cares, i love him. She also told me about me and my b/f joyriding with me taking off my shirt and exposing my bra in his car, i did do that but i wish my mom would leave me alone, i am 17.
2007-06-02 06:30:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she says she does not like how i am dressing, with short miniskirts, short shirts and heels, she says it makes me look like a hooker but i will never get in that business. I like to look hot for my b/f. I love what my b/f wears baggy pants and muscle shirts. I hate my mom getting involve in my life, she told me if i get pregnant dont run to her or dad or terry's mom/dad. i said whatever, i am not going to get pregnant we had sex like 4 times and i am not pregnant. She said she does not like my failing grades or me going to partys with my b/f all the time.will someone please help me or give me some advice to have my mom butt out of my life.
If me and my b/f wants to go joyriding we will and if we want to have sex we will. he is hot and i am smoking too. I love seeing my b/f in his boxers, yum lol.
please help, she also told me if i dont stop joyriding with my b/f she will take my license from me and my car keys, i got my license too , so does my b/f but we do got our own cars.
2007-06-02 06:30:35 · update #1
My mom doesn't like how i get terry in trouble in school but he doesnt get into trouble only when someone calls me a wh*re or sl*t when i tell them that i am taken or i am not insterested and they get rough with me in school and call me a wh*ore or sl**. My mom said if i dont dress like a hooker then i wont, but my mom is not my boss, i got a life and i am not going to let my mom run it but she refuses to stop. please help, she said if i dont stop i am not allow to see terry but they wont happen, she can take my car keys/license/computer/my ipod i dont give i dam i am not going to break it off with terry. He has his own car too and license and we both got jobs. His mom and my mom are close they knew each other for a long time please help how to i get my mom out of my life or stop running it.
2007-06-02 06:30:47 · update #2
hahaha
2007-06-02 06:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by rorlegion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are out of control. Yes, you are 17 years old, but you have no clue what is in store for you in the next few years. Your mother though has a good idea what is in store. Let me clue you in. You and your boyfriend is partying your asses off and not getting an education, so when you are on your own, you will be left with unskilled jobs. You will sooner or later find yourself pregnant once or twice or more. You will never have much money. Raising children on your own and not having skilled employment, you will be struggling. Wake up girl. Listen to your mom.
BTW: you don't own your car, your parents do. Girls get pregnant on birth control. Girls get pregnant when using condoms.
2007-06-02 06:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an idiot, and you're mum has every right to be... in your business, when you turn 18 and want to ruin your own life then so be it till then.. You are kinda screwed and you sound like a moron anyway so Im sure you're mum hasn't done all that good of a job anyway. Its a shame that the youth of today is just as WE were when we were you're age, I have a daughter who is 10, and I can't wait to find out if what Im doing as a parent works when she's your age... I can almost bet, that she wouldn't act as you act, She KNOWS even at her age that SAFE SEX is the ONLY sex there is, She KNOWS that she should keep her grades up if she wants to actually become something in this world instead of someone's "Girlfriend" -rolls eyes- Stupid girl lol...
2007-06-02 06:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee sweetheart. If your mom and his mom dont step in-I will.
You're still a minor and I assume, so is he. If you get in trouble with any of the behaviors you think are so much fun, who do you think will be there to bail you out? Both mothers know a lot more about life and it's consequences than both of you do.
I just hope neither of you ends up getting killed or killing someone else on one of the bf's speeding adventures. And I also hope both of you are prepared to be parents at your age.
I put my mother through the same thing and my children put me through a ton of stuff. If you continue on with your behavior, you'll have your turn some day. Listen to your mom
PLEASE.
2007-06-02 06:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by phlada64 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, kiddo but your mom is right about this. She's allow to butt into our lives whether no matter what age we are. It's their nature and job as a mother. If she's warning you about this, she has probably experienced what you're going through and knows what the outcome is. I seriously think God made mothers psychic when it comes to their offspring. But, your mother obviously loves you very much and you obviously love her too. Otherwise you wouldn't be asking strangers for advice. Listen to her. Maybe you two should sit down for a talk without the hostility and you explain to her how you feel. She's going to explain to you how she feels and she's going to not butt out but if I was in your situation, I would listen to mom. P.S. you might want to review your relationship with your bf if he's getting into too much trouble .
2007-06-02 06:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom sounds like she has control issues and is having trouble realizing that you are not her little girl anymore. You can tell her what I just told and see how she responds. But look on the bright side, next year you'll be 18 and if you really want mom out of your life go to college away from home, in fact, threaten to do that if she doesn't lighten up. Best of luck.
2007-06-02 06:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Eric G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a spoiled brat. Congratulations to your mom for caring so much about you that she will get involved in your life. You should not be doing the things that you are doing, and by you immature tirade here I can see that you are not mature enough to understand the consequences of your actions.
Listen to your mom and take a break from your boyfriend. It won't kill you to spend some time with friends instead for a week or two.
2007-06-02 06:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um. Big deal. Happens all the time. I wouldn't want a daughter that looks like a slut. It's just not cool.
Your boyfriend sounds very immature. Maybe he shouldn't be driving. Speeding can kill someone. I guess you never think of that though.
You should be worrying about homework, not your mom. In a couple years you'll be living without her anyway.
2007-06-02 06:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look i know this is going to sound weird, but Your mother is right and so are you!
Your mother loves you and she wants the best for you, you don't see it now but she is giving you good advice!
But i see where you are coming from, you have a job, your studying, well done! You want to do what you want. But you are only seeing the NOW , the fun and excitement!
Your mum is seeing the future and it isn't looking good for you
babes, in her eyes!
2007-06-02 06:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 07:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom sounds like a meddlesome tool to me. Remind her that she is older than you and that you know where the bad nursing homes are.
Your relationship with your boyfriend sounds like sweet young love. Don't let anyone tell you that you shouldn't be together or that you shouldn't be having sex. You've already done it 4 times and you're not pregnant. Don't let it get to you.
2007-06-02 06:37:23 · answer #11 · answered by Leonard Moo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋